My friends dropping me

[RedTheViking]

Hey, ive been friends with this great bunch of guys for a bout 3 years now and weve been good friends all the way through , you know weve always had the childish fights and stuff , but weve been through thick and thin, but then 9 months ago this guy came in our group and he was alright at first , but then to me and another of my group he always took the jokes too far and our joking around for insults and then as he became friends with a couple of my friends they slowly started to drift away from me (probally fed propagnda by him) and then he recently stole my bag went through it and stole a blazer i had for a school function from it , and started parading it in front of everyone, so i snapped and had a go at him , and now nearly all my friends , except for like 2 are aboslutely fine by them selves but when he comes by they completrly ignore me and go along with his jokes(against me) and so ive lost almost all my friends for him.

i know most people will say *if they left you for him then they werent good friends and you shouldnt be friends with them* , but is there anything else that i can do because they were some of my best friends for 3 years and i dont want to lose them.

[Amyxoxo]

You dont have to lose them, just ignore this new boy, still talk to you other mates and bolck out him. Friends usually pick on the 'weakest' (no offence!) member of the group, i think all you will need to do is just get back talking to them :)
All the best :) x

[ChaoticHarmony]

You dont have to lose them, just ignore this new boy, still talk to you other mates and bolck out him. Friends usually pick on the 'weakest' (no offence!) member of the group, i think all you will need to do is just get back talking to them :)
All the best :) x

i totally agree. its a little thing called Mob Mentality. people will always drop their usual tendencies and go with the rest of the group, especially if that group involves someone they like. and it doesnt help if you appear "weak" and actually give them a negative response; they feed off of it, as do most "bullies"

my advise is to just act like he never came and go back to bein their friends. and if they dont like it, well (im sorry to say) they prolly arent good enough friends anymore anyway....(sry again...didnt wanna say that.... >.>)
hope that helped :D

[Delusion15]

Ya man this has happened to all of us. I do not recommend this but i just found new friends and told my other friends they can F*** off and started anew. This was probably childish of me and i probably could have helped the situation however back to the problem at hand so like they said ignore him and don't talk or be around him. If this is too hard and they still side with him they are B******ds or bad people in the pg version. I hope this helps but i doubt it did but remember "A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.

A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky." However in this situation i don't think they are true friends so find someone who is sorry i really hope this helps