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bud2.0
October 12th, 2009, 09:33 PM
so im having some trouble with my girlfriend, first off we dated last year for 6 months then we broke up and a few weeks before school started i asked her out and she said yes and we have been dating since, however these are the problems i am having
1) she hangs out with her ex boy friend a lot when im not around
2) she is on the swim team so we never have anytime together she always has practice and has meets on Tuesdays and Fridays
3) my luck 1 week before i asked her out her friend and her agreed that they would have to approve each others boyfriends and that they weren't supposed to have bf this year, and her friend doesn't like me
4) its just not working out
5) NO ONE KNOWS WERE DATING
i need some advice should i break it off and if so HOW because we are both 15 and the only time i see her is in school and i cant talk to her then because our relationship is secret and i hardly see her after school, and the next time i will be able to talk to her and see her is on Saturday for PSAT's and we will be in separate rooms :what::confused::mad::(

mrmcdonaldduck
October 13th, 2009, 01:02 AM
the best option would be to end it. try find a time where you can be alone with her and break it to her gently. try explain why.

unknown2011
October 13th, 2009, 01:46 AM
secret relationships suck. who wanted it that way? if it was her...end it.

Misty.
October 18th, 2009, 05:56 AM
u know what...secret realationships realy do suck so bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i think dey want it secret jst so dat dey cn haf fun widout ppl looking at dem... :P
i mean if ppl kno shes ur girl...den if shes doing sumthng rong..den dey ll observe n may b let u know...as dey dont kno...dey wont mind her spedning tym wid any1..

n i think of all d ppl her ex must know u r dating her...if u wish to carry on...

n b a man...talk dis all out...what if she wants to work it out..n u end up finsihing things..jst bcoz u dint talk it out...tell her abt ur concerns...n may b u 2 can figure it out :)
all d best..do let us kno what happens.. :)