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bee106
October 12th, 2009, 03:44 PM
okay, i don't exactly know if it's me or my friends that have changed. i don't seem to like them anymore, and seeking out new ones is hard when there's only 40 kids in your grade you see all day.
over the summer, i was away alot and i barely got to see them. but instead of being happy to see them, i can't seem to stand them lately and it's bugging me. i feel like i'm pushing them away when i really really do want friends to talk to and tell my problems and my worries but i feel like they won't get it. i feel like somehow i'm better than them and that's not the way i am. i used to be upbeat and happy but now i'm quiet and resereved. i often feel like i need to get away from them and i hate it.

any ideas?

IAMWILL
October 12th, 2009, 09:53 PM
Hey, you always will have VT!

You seem to need to branch out a bit and try to start new or restart old friendships. Sometimes when you're away from people for to long (or things or almost anything really), you forget the positive things and remember the negative things because it stays with you. Just give them another chance, or totally move on and start some new friendships, it shouldn't be that hard if you really want it. ;)

Sage
October 12th, 2009, 10:56 PM
Internet. All the coolest kids are on the internet. Just look at me!

unknown2011
October 12th, 2009, 11:05 PM
Internet. All the coolest kids are on the internet. Just look at me!
thats a good point. the realest people you will know exist on the internet.
and i've been where you're at. i figured it was because i "grew up", or a looser term is Matured. i found new friends, but say hi when i see my old friends.

mrmcdonaldduck
October 12th, 2009, 11:58 PM
find some people with your interests and opinions, this has happened to me 4 times in 2 years.