View Full Version : Im Stressing!!!!
Rmelnikas
October 12th, 2009, 06:53 AM
I think i am gay, i am getting turned on by guys when ever im at school i look at guys and comment in my mind that there hot and what they would look like naked.
Does this mean im gay????:confused:
I still like women though so could it mean im BI:confused:
I get turned on more by guys that girls.
Im really confussed and dont know what to do:confused:
I would like comforting because this is really getting to me :-(
Please help its really getting to me now that i think about it
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Wonder.
October 12th, 2009, 08:00 AM
Calm down. It might mean you're gay. Really I can't tell you what your sexuality is. Only you know what it is. You're 15. It could be puberty. Or it could mean you're gay. But either way it doesn't change your life. You could also be bisexual like you said. But I can't tell you hecauseI don't know. I would have to be you to be able to tell you.
diamond jetstream
October 12th, 2009, 08:02 AM
its ok dont stress about it at te worst it could mean yur bi or gay and there is nohing wrong with that.im bi and im fine with it
Rmelnikas
October 12th, 2009, 03:22 PM
Thanks guys it helped me calm down a bit.
nick
October 12th, 2009, 03:44 PM
Hi Ryan, well I have those sorts of thoughts all the time and accept that I am bi. But then I could imagine myself in a long term relationship with either guys or girls, thats kinda key. Can you imagine yourself in a relationship with a guy?
pm me if you want to ask me anything or talk more about it.
bowlheadhere
October 12th, 2009, 10:47 PM
Don't worry about it! You are completely normal by my standards. I was like you and then I just realized that "hey, why am I so worried about this and loosing sleep over it? Why does the categorization of my sexuality matter?". You just need to come to the realization that it is completely normal to experience such thoughts. I think that you should focus less on your sexuality, and more with finding your true love. What is the point of figuring out your sexuality for the rest of your life and not being able to be with the one that makes you happy no matter what...? As I said before though... I experienced it and I know a couple other people who have, so you just have to hang in there and whatever comes will come. Just stay happy! =)
bat822
October 13th, 2009, 04:44 PM
Dude I thought I was gay but then i realized it was hormones you have plenty of time to figure out your sexuality its ok.
daveywavey
October 13th, 2009, 06:35 PM
who knows what you are Ryan? except you buddy, you could be bi, you could be straight, you could be gay, but you know what you know for certain? you are YOU, and thats all that counts, you have a life time to figure out the end of the puzzel, life is a roller coaster brother, ups and downs esspecially at our age, embrace whatever you feel at the time, the true answer will come eventaully man, so calm down and enjoy whatever makes you happy right now, i know how it feels, just take a few deep breaths brother
davey
zgrazier
October 15th, 2009, 10:21 AM
during the teenyears ur body makes tons of hormones that control ur attraction its how u act on those that determines ur sexuality i have loads of straight friends that have been attracted to guys before but it dosnt mean their r gay in my opion ur only gay or bi if u wld date a guy theres nothing wrong withth being bi or gay if its who u r
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