bisexual

[grave]

Someone please help. I would like a lot an opinion from everyone who read this...

I'm fourteen years old and a girl. I've always liked guys--I still like guys. But now I think I'm bisexual and that would be no problem at all, but I'm very attracted to one of my reallllly close friends.

I sometimes think she is bisexual too. She's really comfortable with me and she says stuff like "Oh those pants make your ass look really big!" And she's said things about OTHER girls like "Doesn't she have a really nice body?"

It might be a phase but if it is not I want to know what to do..

Should I try not to think about my attraction to her or would I be able to move closer to her without ruining our friendship?

Please be honest with your opinion.. If you've been in or knows someone who has been in a similer situation, please tell me your story and outcome! Also, if you're straight, dont judge the situation as "Omg! Like, ew shes bi! Thats like sooo discustinggg!!"

[Bobby]

Well if your going through puberty (which i assume you are) then you and ur friend are just curious, most people are during puberty. You couild be bisexual, but it's defineatley curiosity, and you could be straight to.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

I don't think you're friend is bisexual... She just might like her body.. you know like a fat girl would look at a skinny girl and say i wish i looked like her... and you at the moment.. your just goin through a curiosity phase.. which should go away soon..

[redcar]

i wouldnt jump to labeling yourself now, you are 14 and hormones raging. many teens go through the "omg i am attracted to the same sex" stage.

it could very well be a phase, or you mght be, but all i know is its too early to know for sure.

and as for your friend she is prob going through the exact same thing you are, because so so many teens experience that.

[kolte]

Couldn't have said it better myself! Exept for all the times, I have said it myself in this form! lol (partially taken from the colbert report).

Your 14 and your body and mind are changing rapidly. Your friend too is changing. There is a possibility that you are bisexual or lesbian, but you know what, your 14 years old, and thats a reality that you must accept later on in life. To jump to conclusions and just say your bi, may label yourself for life something you are not I would giveit time if I were you, let things evolve, and when your 16-18 you can figure all this out eaiser.

[DouggyO.o]

Only time will tell. Sexual orientation — being lesbian, bisexual, gay, or straight, is about sexual attraction. It can take years to understand our sexual orientation. Each of us has to answer these questions for ourselves, but it may take time before we can answer. Rest assured that many teens (and adults too!) are still figuring out their sexuality — what you're experiencing is more common than you might think!

So many people, young and older, have questions about their sexual orientation that there is actually a name for them. Many identify themselves and are identified by others as "questioning."

People who are attracted to people of both genders sometimes call themselves bisexual. No one knows for sure what makes people lesbian, gay, bisexual, or heterosexual. Sexual orientation develops naturally — perhaps even before birth. Although sexual orientation may seem to shift for some people in the course of a lifetime, it is not something that people can decide for themselves or others.
Being a gblt is also determained by love, without love you may be just curious or possably bi

So, it's completely OK to be wondering about your sexuality.

(this was taking out of my post in the puberty faq)

[R&b_Boy]

no no no.. don't label ur self like them other girls dat live in Washington D.C.. make no damn sense

[mike1]

you may be bi

[Aηdy]

its likely to be just a curiosity phase in puberty.. but you could be bi.. you cant tell untill your older.. only time will tell ;)

[Elscire]

its likely to be just a curiosity phase in puberty.. but you could be bi.. you cant tell untill your older.. only time will tell ;)
also depends on the person's personality. you can change with periods of time or you could be bi.