Mom's Can Be So...UGH!!!

[Brighter.Tomorrow]

Let's first start off with, I'm a virgin, don't do drugs, and never had any trouble with the law.

Almost everyday my mom gives me a lecture about drugs or sex, and I found out from my friend that she asked them if i was doing drugs!
I've never been a "bad boy", so it really bother's me that she doesn't trust me.
And she thinking I'm having sex with three different girls!
She says the reason she thinks I'm doing drugs is because I'm moody, Moody? Hello Teenager. It's My Write To be Moody! XD
I just don't know what to do anymore. It really bother's me when someone doesn't trust me and when it's my own mother it hurts.
Any advice?

[alex95]

Lol my mom acts same way but she tries her best not to make me suspicious she is scarred of me growing up and interacting with the outside world.

[Spunky]

I think a parents are scared and worried about their kids. And yes some parents show it more but we just have to accept it and try to ignore it as much as possable. My parents are allways constantly lecuring me about life and the choises I make. All it is that they care and want u to have a good life.

[Brighter.Tomorrow]

Lol my mom acts same way but she tries her best not to make me suspicious she is scarred of me growing up and interacting with the outside world.

Yeah..But it just makes me so mad. It's gotten to the point where I now just push her away..

[alex95]

Yeah..But it just makes me so mad. It's gotten to the point where I now just push her away..

I know i dont do any of that im still haven't got laid or anything i cant even leave my house if i come home late she is just glad she doesn't even ask anymore because she knows im getting older now and she takes advantage of me keeping my respect for her.

[Contra]

You know, I learned to accept moms are like that, trying to protect us, sometimes not noticing we are not kids anymore.
I think you just have to take it. That's what I do, although my mom lectures me about school and stuff...

[mrmcdonaldduck]

are your mom and my mom related? cause they do the same thing.

[Modus Operandi]

Well, your mom may be overreacting a bit, but it's fairly normal for a parent to be concerned.

One thing you didn't mention is, do you act mature? I'm not a prefect angel, but I'm mature in the sense that I act older than I am, and thus my mom trusts me and my judgement. It is possible you've shown bad judgement in the past and she doesn't want you to make a mistake.(Not saying you did, just putting it out there)

[Sugaree]

Don't worry about it. My mom was the same way when I turned 14. They can be a bit overwhelming at times, but you just have to take it all as it comes along.

The only advice I can offer is for you to talk to your mom about your frustrations with her superstitions. Flat out tell her that you aren't having sex or doing drugs. Don't push her away, because that will just make things even worse. Good luck!

[Brighter.Tomorrow]

Well, your mom may be overreacting a bit, but it's fairly normal for a parent to be concerned.

One thing you didn't mention is, do you act mature? I'm not a prefect angel, but I'm mature in the sense that I act older than I am, and thus my mom trusts me and my judgement. It is possible you've shown bad judgement in the past and she doesn't want you to make a mistake.(Not saying you did, just putting it out there)

Yes I do, I always have. Hell, I'll turn down cake 80% of the time she offers it to me for a carrot, I'm responsible in pretty much everything I do.

[Modus Operandi]

Yes I do, I always have. Hell, I'll turn down cake 80% of the time she offers it to me for a carrot, I'm responsible in pretty much everything I do.

LOL. So you don't show bad judgement, but she does this? Mmmm, I'd say she is overreacting a bit yeah.(no sarcasm intended)

[1_21Guns]

Oh you should hear my mum sometimes, on about internet peadophiles and sex. She seriously thinks I have no brain cells at all, which kinda hurts. Some parents are just like that. Its really frustrating but its just life I guess.