i need advice

[spaz]

my friends at school dont really like the girl im going out with, they say that shes changed me in a bad way. i really love this girl but my friends keep saying i need to break up with her, they keep yelling at her because they think i forgot about them. i havent though, i talk to all of them evry single day. what should i do???:(

[Stewart]

Think about the people you've know longer....your friends. If I were you, I'd choose the people I've known for a long time and built a bond with over a girl. Good luck! :)

[unknown2011]

peer pressure. been there done that.
i've been in your situation and i ended breaking up with my gf, which i didnt want to do. she ended up hating me for about 3 days then we just became good friends.
my advice...dont let your friends control your actions or doubt them.

[Shenron]

Well, if they are disreguarding your love for this girl, I wouldn't consider them TRUE friends. But aside from that, I would talk to them and tell them that they are offending you and your girlfriend. Tell them that you really love this girl and that if they cant understand that, then they need to find someone else to hang out with. After all, if you truely love her, you would be willing to sacrafice your frendships for her.

On another note, have they ever told you why they don't like her? Ask them how she has changed you, and why they don't like it.

[sebbie]

Tell them that they should respect your decision to be with the girl, and that it won't change how you are with them.

If they are worried that they are "losing" you to her then maybe try and do some stuff with them when your girlfriend is not about.

[Blue63]

Well your friends probably do care about you. Talk to them, ask them to explain further how she has changed you. Look at the situation in their eyes. I know you care about your girlfriend, but just try and keep an open mind. My friend went out with this girl once, he was a total dick to us just because he wanted to talk about her and spend so much time with her. Just keep an open mind, your friends aren't happy about the situation either.

[Misty.]

Talk it out....tell dem u realy like d girl..ask dem y dey dont like her..n in case dey feel u aint giving dem time...jst do it...give dem more time :) simple enuf i guess :P