No sexual attration towards girls...

[BLAH.]

Hi, Sorry if this is asked all of the time.

I am emotionally attracted to girls but I am not sexually attracted towards them, whereas I am sexually attracted to boys.

Is this just my hormones playing up? Will I eventually be sexually attracted to girls?

I really really really don't want to be gay!
Does this mean I am gay?
Thanks.

[Stewart]

I don't really see a problem if you're gay....It's not bad or anything.

I can't tell you what you want to know, but are you emotionally attracted to guys?

It could just be hormones. Give it time, it'll come to you.

[BLAH.]

I don't think I'm emotionally attracted to boys.

[Don3]

Then it's okay it's just hormones plus try to find out why your not sexually attracted to girls, but out of curiosity how old are you?

[nick]

You're going to have problems if eventually you dont feel both sexually and emotionally attracted to one sex. I guess you need to give it more time. Try not to worry where it will lead you, stay cool.

[BLAH.]

Then it's okay it's just hormones plus try to find out why your not sexually attracted to girls, but out of curiosity how old are you?

I'm 14.

[Blue63]

1t 14 it could just be a phase, don't label yourself right now. Just try and live and you'll be fine. I know it's easier said then done, but try and just keep it calm.

[benjabubble]

I don't really see a problem if you're gay....It's not bad or anything.

While most people here don't consider it a bad thing to be gay, there is still the factor of the crap we get from homophobes. Even if it's not intentional crap it's still crap and it can leave you feeling hurt and uncomfortable. Most people would consider that a bad thing.

So the way I see it, there are some elements of being gay that are "bad" and I think that for most people those are the elements that they are the most worried about when they start questioning their sexuality.