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Kaius
October 11th, 2009, 06:02 AM
So..this has been my problem for the last 2 weeks..
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=56710

Now..im tied.
I told her last night that i wanted her back, and i told her everything i felt and more, and she kicked me back..and told me no chance again.
That was my last chance as shes meeting him today and i know for sure that somethings going to happen, and im just going to be forgotten.
Now..i have this friend, for the sake of the situation il call her friend a. Im really beginning to like her, but im not sure if its just the fact its because shes showing me care at the moment..that whole rebound thing, or whether i really do genuinely like her. my minds filled with so many emotions and thoughts at the moment, and my moods are changing so fast im giving myself whiplash here. one minute i can move on, the next im pining for her so badly again and breaking down over it. What the hell do i do..Does anyone have any experience with this sort of thing? i really need some help, i cant really take much more.

nick
October 11th, 2009, 06:14 AM
If your ex has another guy that she likes now there's not much you can do to change that, you need to try to let go. Maybe in a while she will think she's made a mistake and come back to you. In the mean time if you have a chance to start a new relationship with another girl then why not, that would help you to move on too. Sometimes its no use looking backwards, you need to look forwards.

Misty.
October 18th, 2009, 05:40 AM
u kno ,,,, aftr d break up....ppl r more vunerable...to fall for some1 huz guiding dem....its like d most common thing....just chill...

n dear if u haf an ex..huz already involved wid sum1 else...y do u want to go back????
is she realy worth the time..??? the energy??? ur tears???? and most imp is she worth u????

high time dude..shake ur self out of this thing....do things..move out hang wid frnds...keep her thoughts out of u...


n trust me...dont involve dis 2nd girl u think u started liking.....give ur self a break..say of 3-6 months...no relationship ....till den....
den ull b able to make a better judegmnt..right nw ur judgemnt will b clouded by ur ex betrayal n all... k????
do dis kz u myt end up hurting dis 2nd girl kz of ur ex...indirectly (n rembr dis 2nd girl is actualy helping u...n in turn ull hurt her...if u ask her out or somthng )