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JenniferToni
October 10th, 2009, 08:36 AM
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 weeks and we are bith 15.
i think im ready and i no i want him to be my first because he is the sweetest guy any girl would love to have but
1) im not on the pill +
2) we dnt have a condom and
3) were the hell would we do this?
his parents are soo over protective i understand why they are i just no i want something to happen soon.
what do i do?:confused:

Cloud
October 10th, 2009, 08:40 AM
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 weeks and we are bith 15.
i think im ready and i no i want him to be my first because he is the sweetest guy any girl would love to have but
1) im not on the pill +
2) we dnt have a condom and
3) were the hell would we do this?
his parents are soo over protective i understand why they are i just no i want something to happen soon.
what do i do?:confused:

you might be ready
but is he ready for this??????
its as mch his choice as it is yours
so before you go planning everything out and scare him off
make sure your both ready for this

and if you dont have a condom buy one
kinda the obvious thing to do

JenniferToni
October 10th, 2009, 08:49 AM
you might be ready
but is he ready for this??????
its as mch his choice as it is yours
so before you go planning everything out and scare him off
make sure your both ready for this

and if you dont have a condom buy one
kinda the obvious thing to do

i no he is, hes just soo scared if upsetting his dad.
i no that much but my mum is soo like full on, i dnt think i could get away with it.

Cloud
October 10th, 2009, 08:54 AM
i no he is, hes just soo scared if upsetting his dad.
i no that much but my mum is soo like full on, i dnt think i could get away with it.

well then
be patient
theres a reason yor parents are gonna be annoyed by it
id say wait til your the legal age of consent whatever that is where oyu are
then there inst anything they can actually do to stop yo

nick
October 10th, 2009, 10:35 AM
You would be completely crazy to even think about having sex without some reliable form of contraception. Just don't go there, don't think he can pull out or anything its not safe. A baby at your age would screw up everything, its not worth the risk. So if you don't get that condom just dont go that far.

Hyper
October 10th, 2009, 10:56 AM
Please, for the sake of humanity don't have sex

If you are unable to figure out simple things for yourself then you are definitely not ready -.-

Stewart
October 10th, 2009, 01:10 PM
Don't have sex. It could really ruin your life if you get pregnant. If you really like each other you would not do it.

Misty.
October 18th, 2009, 03:45 AM
see..having sex or not having sex depends on ur own wish..and ur partners...ur CHOICE...no1 else has a right to force their opnion on u..k???
BUT>>>>the problem is...YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND>>>> HAVIng sex is not only for fun n the thrill...but it requires u to be capable enuff to handle the consequences...
ask a few questions from ur self..
1) r u ready to get caught by ur parents..hu wud feel ofended by ur behaviour??

2) r u ready to get PREGNant?????? (wch is quiete a posiblity..since u dont haf any idea of hw to get a contraceptive n all...n nothing is 100% sure...der is always a posiblity to get pregnent)

3) r u ready to haf a baby...or face the emotional turmoil of geting an abortion???

4) r u ready to get a STD ???? or are u ready to share wid ur parents u hav contracted 1...n make dem take u to a doc..??? or u ur self capable of doing this????


SEX..shud be done not just wen u r physcialy ready...mentaly ready...but also financialy ready...to bear the consequences.. :)


now as to to ur orignal question...sweety...dont do sex widout a contraceptive..becoz ull end up having more trouble den ur bf :(..get that straight..k??? i dont know wedr i m right or wrong...in saying so...if u r just so into doing everythng..y dont u just try some other stuff other dan actual intercourse...(*google abt it)
dont do everyhtng..bt just kinda do a lot of major stuff... :P what say?? nice idea no??