Masturbating with friend

[Mattydude28]

a few months ago one of my friends as usual, invited me round his house for dinner, but this time it was for the night. during the night we were generally chatting, and then he braught up the subject of mastubating and asked me if i would masturbate. but i refused. he's straight and everything but last night he kept asking me questions about it.

he's a really good mate and i dont want to lose him as a friend, but he just dosent want to stop.

any help appreciated :yes:

[hiker1992]

Well if he's really your friend, then just explain to him exactly how you feel, and he should understand. Let him know that the pressure isn't making you feel anymore inclined to do it, and instead is just making you uncomfortable. Really, if you just let him know exactly what's up, he should get the idea and stop asking.

[nick]

Well all you can do is say you dont even want to talk about it. If he still keeps on then you will have to think whether he'e the right kind of friend.

[Mattydude28]

thanks guys

[pontiacdriver]

a few months ago one of my friends as usual, invited me round his house for dinner, but this time it was for the night. during the night we were generally chatting, and then he braught up the subject of mastubating and asked me if i would masturbate. but i refused. he's straight and everything but last night he kept asking me questions about it.

he's a really good mate and i dont want to lose him as a friend, but he just dosent want to stop.

any help appreciated :yes:

My view is exactly what you told us above is what you should tell your friend. What I mean is that you should tell him that you value him as a friend, but you just don't want to do anything sexual with him. At that point the ball is in his court, and he either respects your wishes or not. You need to make it clear to him that while you most likely have nothing against masturbating or sex in general it is something you want to do with someone who is a girlfriend/boyfriend and not your friend. If your friend does not respect your words, then you will have to keep a distance from him for a while until he gets his hormones under control. Sadly, puberty can be a major shock for some guys, and the sudden new sexual feelings can be too much for some guys to handle. You definitely should not masturbate with your friend even if you like him as it is your body, and you must not do anything with which you do not feel comfortable.

[YourFriend]

Talk with him, explain that you simply don't want to do it, he should understand.

[xSebastian]

I wish I had a friend that would ask me that.....

It's just normal, he's just obviously more curious and comfortable about this subject. If you don't feel up to it, just tell him, maybe he'll understand.

[Disconected]

i think ur friend is just curious if he's developing at the same rate as other guys his age and he probably trusts u enough to talk about it. but if u don't want to jerk off wit him thts fine, just talk to him and tell him u can talk about it but u don't want to do it together.

[Imahelpu103]

If he does keep on then u need to look and see if he is really as straight as u think

[Mythical]

just go with it

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please do't bump old threads, this one is over two months old.
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