Having second thoughts....

[DarkWingedAngel]

I'm having second thoughts about everything in my life right now.
Ever since I came out I have been getting the worst fucking comments ever.
I ain't gonna say any of em because well I don't wanna get banned from here. But it's really getting on my nerves.



I WISH I WASN'T GAY. I wish I never came out. I wish that everyone in my life would get the fuck gone.

I know I like girls but I don't wanna anymore. I know I can't change it because well I can't change myself, but I do wish I was someone completely different(who isn't gay).

I fucking hate the rude comments and the homophobic questions(yes I just said homophobic questions).

I can deal with people hating me the comments have to go.

So anyways on to a real question.
How can I get them to stop?

[shikachunin]

Its not your fault that your gay! When i came out, i came out to only my 2 closest friends. They didn't tell anyone else. But in your case, its different. You need to IGNORE ALL THE RUDE COMMENTS!!!!!!! If they are really your friends, they will stick by you no matter WHAT happens. The people who diss you are being homophobic, and they're afraid of this unknown,new factor being added to their environment. The thing you need to be careful of is people who might try to harm you. Its almost happened to me, but i walked away before anything became to rough.

[DarkWingedAngel]

I have had people try to kill me because im gay. so that ain't news to me.

[Stewart]

The best thing you can do is go to someone you trust. Have you told your mom yet? If so, you may want to tell her about the bullying or maybe talk to a teacher. Is this out of school or during school?

[Blue63]

Ignoring, all though a good strategy if you can use it, is easier said than done.

What you need to be is secure with yourself, again way easier said then done, find some form of "happy place". A physical place you can go to, or a mental place if that works for you, regardless find a place where you can just relax. Where you can drift away from the negative comments. People may always think of you as a gay, freak and terrible person. But after a while the hateful comments will begin to die down. They may never completely go away, but they will die down. It will get old making fun of you.

Find a hobby, find something that makes you happy, eases the stress, just clear your mind and try and let things just drift away. Easier said than done, believe me I know. Just try and be secure with yourself, even if you do think the whole world is against you. Don't worry, you're not alone, even though it seems like it.

[diamond jetstream]

hi i think you should maybe change schools because if they are trying to kill you thats really bad that is attempted murder maybe police would like to know about these things they can sort whoever is doing it out.

[bowlheadhere]

I have had people try to kill me because im gay. so that ain't news to me.

Seriously, if someone is trying to kill you, that is NOT OKAY! If someone is going to that extent you really need to get help from a trusted adult or even federal authorities. Any such threat requires the out most attention. Their is absolutely NO reason for someone to do anything of this source.

My advice to you is to ignore it. Do not allow them any satisfaction by reacting to such comments. If you do, they will continue to do so. If this doesn't work, I really recommend taking up a martial art (at a true Dojo, not McDojo). Martial arts have taught me to come to center with myself through meditation and concentration.

Anyways, you should always be proud of who you are! Do not allow anyone to bring you down! Be proud of all that you are! You must realize that you live and interact with a very small amount of people compared to the world, and that not everyone is like that.. you just so happen to be around the bad crayons in the box. As you grow up and venture away from where you currently are, you will realize that their are a lot of loving, accepting individuals out there, you just have to give it time. In the mean time, just ignore those who make such comments and occupy your time with other things. I would also recommend that you look around for GSA clubs or other social groups for gay and bisexual individuals (like the Openarms Project). Stay proud of who you are, and NO ONE can get you down.

Hope this helps...?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

ok i think you should talk to the school, i once had this guy who kept bothering me so there was always a cop on the door in every class room for me lol i felt special no on could touch me but yea i felt safe i think you should try that, and dont worry they will eventually grow up and mature, i dont think there is any thing wrong with you, so dont worry just be happy ;)

[sam i am]

ik it sucks believe me i came out to my whole 8th grade class and a lot of guys act mad weird around me because i was bi and they joked on me like when i say f**k u with my middle finger they say stick it up ur a** i felt so hurt i thought they was my friends but its ok i learned how to deal with it and guess what they wanna be my friends because girls are all on me ....i notice it just takes time for everyone to accept u for who u are and those who hate just don't even bother giving attention to them because they like giving u attention. Be proud of who u believe me all my friends that i know are still my friends and they treat me the same like we be talking about boys when their straight its so cool they listen and even see who is worthy to be my bf/gf lol just find ur group and ur friends and u will be ok i promise u ...If u need more help just Pm me or Im my aim

[Misty.]

its u...its ur choice...ur life...u made a decision to tell every1 abt what u actualy are...so live up to it..stand by it k??? :)

n its a tuff time for u...i kno :(
honestly i m sory to admit dis..i myself might feel a bit scared at first...i feel so...sorry :( but den if i had a friend hu discovered about themselves...i wont make it tough for them..

n darling...just to let u know...dey myt b curious about what it feels like to be a gay...thats y dey r asking such questions ..sory if it seems as if i m advocating in der favour... :(

but let them be..if u dont like what dey say...tell dem straight..."U SHUD APPOLOGISE..N U SHUD MIND UR OWN BUSINESS...HAVE A LIFE..."

dont let them make u repent for the decision u took...k????
after all its hu u r...n u have the guts to share it.....u shud b proud of ur self...

n if u come out if realy nicely..even if its tough for u...Ull turn out to b a realy strong person.. :)
god bless u :)..

[Fourth Dimension]

FUCK the Haters

[Ghoti]

Check your inbox
dont listen to the others
i PROMISE you do not have to be gay!
You CAN change! :yes:

[bowlheadhere]

Check your inbox
dont listen to the others
i PROMISE you do not have to be gay!
You CAN change! :yes:

Are you joking me? You act like being gay/bisexual is a fucking disease! WTF kind of post is this?!

[Billy15]

Man :( I hate that your going through all that and feeling that way and that's the main reason I haven't told anyone because I'm scared the same will happen to me, especially around here. I am so new at this, so I am probably the worst person to be giving advice but dude, there are narrow minded assholes everywhere but screw em, love yourself and be proud of who you are. I know environment can make that rough but losers are a dime a dozen
and you are not a loser. Hang in there friend and if you ever want to talk, I am here.