Bj

[bat822]

Ok heres the question if I know for a fact me and a friend dont have an std is it safe to give or receive a bj?

[trouble]

yes it is, but how can you be sure he doesn't have an std????

[bat822]

Nither of his parnets have stds and hes never had sex before.

[pontiacdriver]

Ok heres the question if I know for a fact me and a friend dont have an std is it safe to give or receive a bj?

Based upon the information you have given us above, yes, it is safe from a physical point of view to give each other a blow job.

Now, from an emotional point of view I can see problems. What I mean is that assuming that you both want to stay friends and don't want to become boyfriends, then doing sexual actions on each other can mean something more to one or both of you. What I mean is that one person could feel like there is an emotional bond between you both beyond being friends and that the blow job is a reflection of that fact. You need to make sure that if you don't want to become boyfriends that you both know that giving each other blow jobs is nothing more than pleasure.

Finally, sexual stuff between friends can sometimes get complicated especially if one or both of you are feeling confused about your sexualities. Just make sure that if you two do this that you both are all right with being sexual with each other and a with someone of the same sex. Also, make sure that if what you are doing to one another is meant to be private that it does stay that way. Another thing you both have to make sure you do is ensure that you both are in a private place as the last thing you want is someone walking in on you two giving each other blow jobs.

[xSebastian]

Perfectly safe, but as mentioned by pontiacdriver, you should think about it.

[dantheman5000]

yes it is! have at it buddy. but any other time if your not sure be hesitent

[Contra]

If you are really sure neither of you have a STD and if you both want to, go for it.
But it is risky anyway, because probably will make your friendship awkward and you will not be comfortable around each other. So be careful, and don't be forced to do it.

[safeboy360]

If you are really sure neither of you have a STD and if you both want to, go for it.
But it is risky anyway, because probably will make your friendship awkward and you will not be comfortable around each other. So be careful, and don't be forced to do it.



me and friends hav done it a couple of times to each other and our friendship became closer so tht is false in fact i would recomand tht u do it but its up to u


along as u both want to do it then thre isn;t a problem and dnt listen karates it does not make ur friendship ackward

[Contra]

me and friends hav done it a couple of times to each other and our friendship became closer so tht is false in fact i would recomand tht u do it but its up to u


along as u both want to do it then thre isn;t a problem and dnt listen karates it does not make ur friendship ackward

I'm not saying it will, I'm saying it could happen, but that's up to them.

[safeboy360]

I'm not saying it will, I'm saying it could happen, but that's up to them.

you wouldn;t even both think about it unless u were confortable with each others sexuality so wot saying is a load of crap yer he has said that they r both confortable with seeing each other naked and stuff all he asked is i tok to go further and the answer is yes

[Contra]

First of all, english, please.
And then, he only asked about if it was okay to give or receive a BJ, it is. I said it could make their friendship awkward, I'm not saying it would. And what I'm saying it's not a load of crap, just because that happened to you, it doesn't mean it will happen to him.
If they want to, then they can go for it, then they'll see if it affects their friendship or not.

[Kartellmyst]

Blow Jobs, Oral Sex..not that complicate...Um...well you decide what's best..and how old are you? I guess that it's alright...as long as it's enjoyable and safe..;)

[hiker1992]

If you're both clear of STIs, then there shouldn't be an issue with performing oral sex on one another. Go at 'er.

[crazycoller]

if you are both 100% certian of no std's then the only possible side effects would be emotional

[impact_75]

You two can go ahead if u want to, but u can never be sure:yeah:

[IAMWILL]

Although this wasn't a big bump, just barely one technically, the questions has already been answered clearly, so this thread is :locked: