Please plase help she is moving

[Bigdill317]

Alright i dont know if you read my post from a week ago but i like this girl well love her.and a day or to ago i found out she was moving on saterday to flordai??!! and she didnt come to school today only for a couple of minutes.and i think tommorw maybe my laast day to ever see her. and im not for sure what to say to her please help and im really confused.please help:(

[Stewart]

Tell her you love her. Simple as that. :)

[Art_dude]

hmm. You'll have to give us a little more background info before we can give any really good advice. Are you friends with this girl? Or do you just know her and developed a crush? Although telling her you love her seems like the right thing to do right now, sometimes it isn't. You have the right to express your feelings and you should, but before you do, think about how it will affect the other person. Consider for example, (hypothetically speaking) that she in turn has similar feelings. That wouldn't exactly make her feel very good about moving to a different state. It will only remind her (and yourself) that you two had a chance and you both missed it. That would be a lose-lose situation.

Now let's consider if she doesn't like you in that way. You now have the potential of turning a long distant friendship sour, and/or you getting rejected. Still a lose-lose situation only you got this load off of your chest. Ask yourself if in the end if it's reallllllyy worth it.

"the passions of the soul should not sap the vigor of the mind"