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Lost and Confused1
October 7th, 2009, 09:36 PM
Soo.. Apparently, I'm HORRIBLE with hiding my feelings towards someone. I've just recently started working at another store, as they are short for shift leaders. Anyways, I've been working with a guy a lot, and he is SO cute.. and so nice.

I was confused at first as he used to act kinda gay.. but on his facebook it says he was straight. Sooo I told him to text me when he had a chance because I needed to talk to him..

I then told him I couldn't word it properly, and he sent me a message back saying that he was sort of seeing someone.

I still don't know if he is gay, as he didn't say 'Sorry I don't like you like that' or ' I don't go for females' etc..

I saw him today at work, and talk about AWKWARD! I don't know if I should try and get him to like me? Or find out if he does or not.

Grey fox
October 8th, 2009, 03:30 PM
Dont stress over it, if it will happen, then it will in due time.

Just build up a friendship and trust base first, or just have him as your eye-candy!

Art_dude
October 9th, 2009, 09:25 AM
Ditto to what Amy said.

Sounds like he just isn't interested in you: That doesn't make him gay XD
Some guys just happen to be effeminate in the way the talk or carry themselves.
I've never understood people who tried the 'get the person to like me' game. As soon as you engage in that, you lose your own identity to interest another person. Then you're no longer you but what he/she wants you to be.

And if there IS a chance of something happening in the distant future, then don't sweat it. Like Amy said, build up a friendship/trust base first and that will lay down fertile ground for possible relationships.

FunnyHaHa
October 9th, 2009, 11:38 AM
yeahh I would give it time..now that he knows youre interested, if he likes you back he will act on it