What if FOr girls?

[hotttz]

WHat if you are not sensitive and dont realy feel pleasure whn u rub ur clit , u dont realy feel any thing ?:eek: or somthing

[Grey fox]

There's always the G-spot ;)

[lipstick_kisses23]

think about things that make you horny and thats sure to do it. im the same way and it works like a CHARM

[Sapphire]

Are you sure you've actually been rubbing your clit?

[hotttz]

is there any thing els i need to know about that? jw

[Sapphire]

Find out where your clit is because you obviously haven't found it.

[Stewart]

Shouldn't this be in Puberty for Girls?

[hotttz]

no and i did lmao (not find it? hows tht posible!) :/

[Sapphire]

Ok, well if you are absolutely sure then I would probably put it down to a hormone imbalance. I've read somewhere that testosterone is key in clitoral sensitivity.

[hotttz]

testosterone?

[Sapphire]

Yes, the sex hormone testosterone.

[diamond jetstream]

this should definitely be in girl puberty

[Serenity]

this should definitely be in girl puberty

Did you report it?

And to the OP, there's nothing wrong with your hormones. Girls aren't like boys. A guy can rub his penis and it's gonna feel good, period. Girls need to be aroused before any stimulation starts to feel good. Just rubbing your clit out of nowhere isn't gonna do anything for you. You've gotta be in the mood. I read about this study once that showed women generally can't orgasm if their attention is focused on achieving it. Be in the moment, do what feels good, and stop analyzing things so much.

[Princesse_de_Cleves]

And to the OP, there's nothing wrong with your hormones. Girls aren't like boys. A guy can rub his penis and it's gonna feel good, period. Girls need to be aroused before any stimulation starts to feel good. Just rubbing your clit out of nowhere isn't gonna do anything for you. You've gotta be in the mood. I read about this study once that showed women generally can't orgasm if their attention is focused on achieving it. Be in the moment, do what feels good, and stop analyzing things so much[/QUOTE]

[Sapphire]

Failing to orgasm and failing to get any sensations after stimulating ones clitoris are two very different things.
The OP hasn't said anything about failing to have an orgasm but has said that her clit isn't sensitive to stimulation.
An imbalance of testostrone is linked to clitoral insensitivity (which is what the OP says is the case here).

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Girls' Puberty

[hotttz]

whn u rub your clit is it suppose to tickle looool

[Serenity]

Failing to orgasm and failing to get any sensations after stimulating ones clitoris are two very different things.
The OP hasn't said anything about failing to have an orgasm but has said that her clit isn't sensitive to stimulation.
An imbalance of testostrone is linked to clitoral insensitivity (which is what the OP says is the case here).

I was using the orgasm fact as an elaborative point. If just stimulation caused pleasure for a woman, a woman would feel pleasure during a rape. What actually happens? It hurts. Because there's no arousal. That's obviously a very extreme comparison but it gets the point across- just touching yourself randomly isn't going to lead to pleasure. That's where all the jokes about women being so much harder to get off than guys, because it's true. If a girl is having sex with a guy but isn't into him and isn't feeling the moment, she's not going to enjoy it, even if he's stimulating her. It's not a hormonal imbalance. You're blowing it completely out of proportion.

[Sapphire]

I was using the orgasm fact as an elaborative point. If just stimulation caused pleasure for a woman, a woman would feel pleasure during a rape. What actually happens? It hurts. Because there's no arousal.And how do you know that? Hmm?
The reality of rape is that your body reacts to the stimulation independently of your thoughts and wants.
Many rape victims actually battle with what they perceive to have been them "enjoying" the rape because their body reacted to the other person's touch.
If the mind is as powerful as you are trying to make out then they wouldn't have to battle these feelings, would they?

Male victims/survivors are often ashamed and confused when their body responds during an assault. Frequently, men who are sexually assaulted or raped have an involuntary or forced erection or ejaculation. Also, muscles in the anus often relax when a man is raped. This does not mean that the survivor wanted to be raped or sexually assaulted. Involuntary erections and ejaculations are normal reactions to physical stimulation even when sex is non-consensual.
http://www.rvap.org/pages/for_male_survivors/#what_are_typical_reactions_during_or_after_a_sexual_assault
http://net-burst.net/hope/rape_orgasm.htm <- Real life story of someone whose first orgasm occurred during a rape

So powerful is sex that it is almost inevitable that any sexual encounter – no matter how despised and unwanted – will contain elements of pleasure and deep bonding. In an unwanted encounter, these are highly obnoxious consequences of sex but they are such an integral part of sex that they are almost impossible to completely remove from forced sex. This fact is so rarely understood that sex crime victims usually end up loathing themselves or at least being confused and deeply disturbed over what is just a normal reaction to unwanted sex.
http://net-burst.net/hope/child_seduce.htmThat's obviously a very extreme comparison but it gets the point across- just touching yourself randomly isn't going to lead to pleasure. That's where all the jokes about women being so much harder to get off than guys, because it's true. If a girl is having sex with a guy but isn't into him and isn't feeling the moment, she's not going to enjoy it, even if he's stimulating her. It's not a hormonal imbalance. You're blowing it completely out of proportion.To get no sensation at all while stimulating the clitoris is not normal. You will feel something by stimulating the right parts.
I have already showed that whether you are "in the mood" or not it makes no difference.

And yes, men are easier to pleasure than women but that doesn't mean that a man will naturally enjoy having sex with someone he doesn't like.

Oh, and btw cast your eyes over this:
Testosterone deficiency can result in diminished desire and arousability, insensitivity of the clitoris and nipples, and difficulty reaching orgasm.
http://www.safemenopausesolutions.com/womenssexualhealth.html

[Serenity]

Wow. I really did not want to turn this into a debate. Agree to disagree.

OP, if you think your hormones are messed up, see a doctor. It's not something that can be figured out by strangers online anyway.

[Sapphire]

You make a false statement about rape victims and when I show you how it's wrong this discussion has suddenly turned into a debate?

[hotttz]

I never thought i was messed up. And wasjut curiose ... i barly know any thing here so i post questions were i can hopfuly get answeres.

[hotttz]

I neve said i was messed up. I was just quriouse abt these and i barly know anything so i ask these questions on this site which i thought i could get an anwere. Ps my doctor is a guy and i would NEVER talk to him about this stuff EVER. if i can ask a question that would be great :D