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themanwhoneverwould
October 7th, 2009, 01:19 PM
So, here the story, i was pretty sure was Gay. Then the past week, which has been so stressful, i am more confused than ever. I mean, it took me a while
I have heard so many Homophobic comments, more than usual, and no one knows i felt gay, and, well it hurt.
I really do not know what to feel now, and nothing seems certain any more. Its only Wednesday, but it really feels like its should be Saturday!

I am just so so so confused at the moment its actually making me feel upset.

Its like, i am not really attracted to women any more than i was, i was a little bit, but men more. But now i don't feel as attracted to men, and its just so hard to describe, i really can not put how i feel down into words. it might be where i'm subconsciously trying to hide it from the comments people have made, i mean, i have even noticed comments being made from a teacher!

Kahn
October 7th, 2009, 01:27 PM
It's probably because you feel so resented and dis-liked. It's bull crap how people judge gays and bi's just because they like the same sex.

nick
October 7th, 2009, 02:39 PM
You cant really change your sexuality as a result of a few comments, life isnt that simple. I don't know how old you are, but I'm guessing that you need more time to be able to judge properly what your sexuality is, it can take a while. There's no need to rush to any conclusion. Just try and stay as relaxed with it as you can.