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Rainstorm
October 6th, 2009, 02:44 PM
So, I have a girl in school, that I kind of have a crush on. I see her in about 2 - 3 of my classes everyday, and we sometimes chat. She's really nice, but kind of quiet. I've known her for about a year, since she moved here last year.
Thing is, I don't know how to ask her out at all. I'm not great in that area, so some advice would be nice to (if that's allowed.)
Kahn
October 6th, 2009, 02:59 PM
Try flirting with her. She could be interested if you've known her for over a year. I flirt with someone and see if they're interested unless I know for a fact they are.
Mikee
October 6th, 2009, 03:34 PM
Well as far as asking her out you could do it in a slow way. What I mean by that is maybe invite her to a movie and go with a group of your friends and her (Make sure there not friends that she would hate being around). Then a few days later let her know that you had fun at the movies and invite her somewhere you both can hang out but this time make it just the two of you. If there's another movie out you could go see that together, possibly go out to eat together, or if your school has dance ask her if she would like to go to the dance.
Sorry if its a bit confusing my minds thinking one thing but then when I type it i dont know if its really coming out as clear as I want it to. lol
Kahn
October 6th, 2009, 03:55 PM
I get what your saying. Much better than my advice.
kyle95
October 7th, 2009, 12:10 AM
for starters mate, continue talking to her. go over to her in class and sit next to her, walk her to the next class - be her friend. make her something you think she'd like and tell her you thought of her when you made it.
if you truly like her, invite her into your world, your home, let her meet your parents and do likewise with her, go to her home and introduce yourself to her parents. above all, be a gentleman with her and to her. by that i mean don't discuss her with your mates, respect her, and be proud to walk with her and introduce her to your mates as your 'very special' friend.
so don't sweat the going out stuff. you have enough background work to do to get to that level with her. good luck mate
anime Freak
October 7th, 2009, 06:31 PM
the best procces i know is also the longest, become freinds then close freinds, then try to slowly make your move
Stewart
October 10th, 2009, 01:19 PM
All you can do is talk and get to know her. Don't rush it and ask her out right away. Building a Friendship and Trust will get you farther than a date.
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