The problems with intense masturbation VS Sex & pushing the limits with masturbatiion

[mjojo]

Here I will hopefully better state my case from my previous topic.

I know we only have to go slow and gentle to make ourselves ejaculate when we jerk off and so it's not normal to go fast or be rough. BUT is it ok to go really fast and be rough if it makes it more intense when I cum?

I'm asking because like I know that you can be much, much faster & also much, much rougher jerking off than you can with sex. So like is it a good thing to do or bad?

I know that it definitely feels WAY better doing it fast and rough than it ever did before when I was doing it slow & gentle the way I had been doing it since I first started jerking off. So the feeling when I'm cumming is definitely like a hundred times stronger now being rough and going fast. So because it feels so much better that way. I'm very afraid that it would mess up desire for & feeling during sex since sex is very tame and gentle and slow in comparisson to jerking off rough. Sex is more like jerking off very slow & gentle. Now that I'm used to jerking off rough and fast and feel how much better it feels this way when I cum, I never want to go back to jerking off slow and gentle like I used to do. So it only stands to reason that sex would also feel not intense enough and not as desirable compared to how it feels jerking off very hard.

Besides that problem with sex that i just described jerking off rough could also cause a problem with constantly wanting to intensify things after getting used to jerking off rough but then if you try to go further and be even harder/rougher to intensify things even further then it would probably be be harmful like physically.

So I'm saying that I can't go back to being gentle again now that I've felt what a way more intense feeling is like but if I had never gone beyond that point of being gentle then I would not know the difference and ironically would not have the problems I mentioned above right? I guess there's nothing to be done.

[QuickQuart]

Mkay, first off, there's nothing wrong with jerking fast or rough. Second, you shouldn't compare sex to masturating. Your hand and the inside of a vagina/asshole/mouth are very different, so the sensations of sex are in totally different categories. It's like comparing apples to oranges.

So jerk off as hard an fast and rough as your heart desires, and don't worry about t.

[trouble]

there is nothing rough in jerking off rough

[Kartellmyst]

Here I will hopefully better state my case from my previous topic.

I know we only have to go slow and gentle to make ourselves ejaculate when we jerk off and so it's not normal to go fast or be rough. BUT is it ok to go really fast and be rough if it makes it more intense when I cum?

I'm asking because like I know that you can be much, much faster & also much, much rougher jerking off than you can with sex. So like is it a good thing to do or bad?

I know that it definitely feels WAY better doing it fast and rough than it ever did before when I was doing it slow & gentle the way I had been doing it since I first started jerking off. So the feeling when I'm cumming is definitely like a hundred times stronger now being rough and going fast. So because it feels so much better that way. I'm very afraid that it would mess up desire for & feeling during sex since sex is very tame and gentle and slow in comparisson to jerking off rough. Sex is more like jerking off very slow & gentle. Now that I'm used to jerking off rough and fast and feel how much better it feels this way when I cum, I never want to go back to jerking off slow and gentle like I used to do. So it only stands to reason that sex would also feel not intense enough and not as desirable compared to how it feels jerking off very hard.

Besides that problem with sex that i just described jerking off rough could also cause a problem with constantly wanting to intensify things after getting used to jerking off rough but then if you try to go further and be even harder/rougher to intensify things even further then it would probably be be harmful like physically.

So I'm saying that I can't go back to being gentle again now that I've felt what a way more intense feeling is like but if I had never gone beyond that point of being gentle then I would not know the difference and ironically would not have the problems I mentioned above right? I guess there's nothing to be done.


Sex doesn't always have to be gentle...and jerking off isn't something gentle all the time..but for girls...through a girl perspective on guys I believe if they are giving the guy a hand job...they should probably be gentle around their sacs...b/c that's a gentle part...of their penis area..and can be seriously injured if not careful...but it doesn't really or won't impair any of your sexual drive when you actually have real sex....that is if you have it with someone that you are physically and emotionally attracted to...and sex can be wild crazy and rough....I T' S A L L F U N ...I bet..I wouldn't know yet..but that's the way I see it..through a female perspective..;)

[hiker1992]

Nothing wrong with masturbating that way. It's how most guys do it, it makes the orgasm more intense. Sex, nothing like masturbating. Completely different atmosphere and feeling. When you're having sex, it all depends on how the girl or guy likes it, that'll determine the speed more than anything.

[kenshin8106]

its fine, as long as ur not...using any or puttin any obscene objects into ur penis...2nd, u shldnt compare the 2, the feeling of sex, nything of another person there to ur own hand is a massive difference

[Connor1]

i say to be carful....u wana try something like sex its probly better to go easy?...then again i wouldnt know

[kyle95]

Sex doesn't always have to be gentle...and jerking off isn't something gentle all the time..but for girls...through a girl perspective on guys I believe if they are giving the guy a hand job...they should probably be gentle around their sacs...b/c that's a gentle part...of their penis area..and can be seriously injured if not careful...but it doesn't really or won't impair any of your sexual drive when you actually have real sex....that is if you have it with someone that you are physically and emotionally attracted to...and sex can be wild crazy and rough....I T' S A L L F U N ...I bet..I wouldn't know yet..but that's the way I see it..through a female perspective..;)

she makes a good point mate.

i think you're wrong about intensity. when my gf uses her hands, she does it very slowly and i can't think of a more intense feeling when i finally cant hold back.

i do see a bit of a problem with what you're saying, and i could be wrong: you seem to be searching for or suspecting there's an incremental level of roughness to heighten your orgasm and you're wondering just how far you can go. well, david carradine hung himself in the closet trying to find out, as have many others.

my advice: learn to figure out how to enjoy it slower than to learn rougher ways that can get you into trouble. remember mate, girls aren't porn star actresses. for the most part, i would think they prefer you to be quite gentle with them.

[unknown2011]

dude above me is right.

[spamuel]

i actually prefer to wank slow and gentle cos i get a better orgasm....