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Mik-Mik
October 6th, 2009, 07:18 AM
Hi, I'm 15 (I guess that's about half-way through my puberty stages), but I have been sexually attracted to guys for the past 2 or so years. I was just wondering: am I gay? And if so, could I become straight? I mean, I still kinda like girls, but I'm more sexually attracted to guys. And I don't want to live my life being gay. Someone please help! ):

nick
October 6th, 2009, 07:21 AM
I cant tell you what your sexuality is, you have to know that for yourself. But whatever it is you should try to accept and be comfortable with. Its not something you can control or have a choice over.

Fusion
October 6th, 2009, 07:23 AM
A homosexual is someone who is emotionally, mentally and physically attracted to a person, I think you are probably just really curious like most other guys here :), this is because your hormone levels are a lot higher during puberty, thus making you horny for everything and anything :)

If you aren't emotionally attracted to a guy then you probably aren't gay you might be bisexual (meaning you just want to have sexual intercourse with a man but want a love relationship with a women)

Mik-Mik
October 6th, 2009, 07:25 AM
If I try hard enough, could I become more sexually attracted to girls, though?

A homosexual is someone who is emotionally, mentally and physically attracted to a person, I think you are probably just really curious like most other guys here :), this is because your hormone levels are a lot higher during puberty, thus making you horny for everything and anything :)

If you aren't emotionally attracted to a guy then you probably aren't gay you might be bisexual (meaning you just want to have sexual intercourse with a man but want a love relationship with a women)

Yes, that's exactly it.

*Please use the edit function instead of posting twice in quick succession, thank you. ~Kaleidoscope Eyes*

Fusion
October 6th, 2009, 07:27 AM
Yes, that's exactly it.

Glade to of helped :), a lot of guys are like this at about your age :)

nick
October 6th, 2009, 07:28 AM
If I try hard enough, could I become more sexually attracted to girls, though?
Either you are or you're not. They used to give people electric shock therapy to try and change them and that didnt work. Its not something you can force.

IAMWILL
October 6th, 2009, 09:44 AM
Puberty for boys to teen sexuality.

QuickQuart
October 6th, 2009, 09:53 AM
it sounds to me like you're just curious. you're only gay or bi if you're mentally attracted to guys, and from your description, i don't think you are. But you're sexually interested in guys, so that makes you curious. most guys (and girls) this age are. there's nothing wrong with it. you'll probably grow up to be straight and happy.

however. if you were gay, why would you have such a problem with it?? theres absolutely nothing wrong with having a different sexuality than what's considered "the norm." "the norm" is a bitch, and you shouldn't listen to it.

TexasRangersKid
October 6th, 2009, 12:45 PM
the biggest mistake ive ever made was coming out straight away, most guys dont until theyre 30ish, but anyway, keep your options open, maybe your bi, don't rule anything out

Shalom
October 6th, 2009, 07:28 PM
You have to explore your options, you are young. Wait until you are older to determine this, like i said explore everything possible to determine what you feel!

nick
October 7th, 2009, 02:46 PM
If you aren't emotionally attracted to a guy then you probably aren't gay you might be bisexual (meaning you just want to have sexual intercourse with a man but want a love relationship with a women)
urgh, no actually, that is not what it means to be bisexual. A bi (like me) has the capacity for both physical and emotional attraction to either sex.

thepieman
October 7th, 2009, 04:08 PM
Well you cannot decide your sexuality, you just know it and stick with it. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're bi, you're bi. There's nothing wrong with it, and there's no need to try and turn yourself straight, as it won't work!