Trying to intensify cumming but sore from doing it

[mjojo]

When I jerk off is it ok to be rough when I cum? When I first started jerking off a few years ago I did it gently & it was fine that way. But slowy over time it didn't feel as intensee because I got used to the same stimulation every time so I wasn't feeling it as much as I was back when I had first started jerking off a few years ago when I was way more sensitive from never having jerked off before. So now I do it rougher for more stimulation and orgasm feels way better this way but I just want to know if it's ok because I get sore & very red there now & never got sore before I started being rougher. I don't feel the soreness while I'm being rough because the feeling of cumming is so much stronger than the soreness but after I finish cumming I all of a sudden start to feel the soreness. So it's like the orgasm covers up the feeling of the soreness I'm causing from being rough when I'm cumming so I can't tell how rough I was being when I was cumming until after orgasm when I can feel things normal again. Orgasm sort of makes everything really numb until it's over so there's no way to tell if I'm too rough until after I cum.

[safeboy360]

we are not allowed to discuss techniques but i would i advise tht u go as soft and slow as possiable

[mjojo]

I used to go really soft & slow like I said. But then I felt like I was so used to doing it that way & jerking off a lot that I had to be rougher & realy fast to make it feel stronger when I cummed. If I go slow and soft again it will be like waaay less intense now that I'm used to doing it rough.

[adam1995]

Ur just going to give ursrlf more time inbetween. Not a huge issue to me.

[mjojo]

But it's not the doing it too often that's the problem. Even if I don't do it for a while and then do it it still hurts afterwards. Like I said though, if I don't go fast & rough while I'm cumming it's not as intense and I can't tell if I'm being too rough until afterwards because orgasm sort of numbs stuff when it's happening.

[martin2008]

but sometimes , being rough may contribute alot, whenu want to be strong

[mjojo]

but sometimes , being rough may contribute alot, whenu want to be strong

What do you mean? Please explain.

[QuickQuart]

in general, there's nothing wrong with jacking off rough. if you're feeling sore afterwards, and it's not because of time in between, then you might want to tone down a little. but you dont have to go EXTREMELY slow. just find what works for you. you might also want to try lube--i've found that it lets you go slow and still give you a good amount of stimulation.

[loz4]

i do it rough n i'm alryt. dunno dude.

[dantheman5000]

becareful oyu can rub your dick raw