girl i like

[thecanadianfawcett]

there is a girl i like and i think she likes me back should i ask her out or should i wait until she asks me out

also how should i let her know i like her im open to any suggestions

its kind of awkward for me to ask her out because she has a twin brother and me and her brother are freinds

[Cloud]

its usually the guy who asks the girl out
so yeaaa
why waste your life waiting for what could have been
take the chance and go for it and ask her out
worst she can do is say no

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[kyle95]

take it slow and look for friendship with her. no need to ask for a date, just offer to walk with her. don't lay a heavy and spill your guts out either. it's all right to tell her you find her interesting. respect her mate and treat her well. good luck

[steph4ryan]

well, i think you should let her know how you feel. If she feels the same way, then you should ask her if she wants to get with you. Good Luck!!!!!!!!

[kenoloor]

take it slow and look for friendship with her. no need to ask for a date, just offer to walk with her. don't lay a heavy and spill your guts out either. it's all right to tell her you find her interesting. respect her mate and treat her well. good luck

Agreed. If you don't know this girl to begin with, then how do you know you like her? If the relationship is born of a physical attraction, it won't last. Get to KNOW her first. If you want to be more than friends, then ask her out. If she's not, then you just gained a friend. Not bad, eh?

And as Calum said, usually the guy asks the girl out.

[Sage]

No, don't take things slow. Ask the girl out. Women love confidence.

[mrmcdonaldduck]

No, don't take things slow. Ask the girl out. Women love confidence.

it depends, many friends of mine have got a girl like that, but the only time i had a gf was through a gradual building of a friendship.

[Art_dude]

it depends, many friends of mine have got a girl like that, but the only time i had a gf was through a gradual building of a friendship.

I see it both ways. I've found that a lot of long, healthy relationships usually happen as a result of building off a friendship because the people know each other well and have a friendly connection. But I've also seen many people who do the friend thing really well, but find out that the girls wouldn't want to 'ruin a friendship' and would rather have had the guy ask them out from the onset. Depends on the person and the situation.

[sebbie]

Personally I would just ask her out, if you work to hard on being friends, you can get "friend zoned". Where you are too good of a friend to have a relationship with.

As Deschain said, confidence is an attractive trait to a lot of people. So asking her out in a confident manner may work in your favour.

[Blue63]

I see it both ways. I've found that a lot of long, healthy relationships usually happen as a result of building off a friendship because the people know each other well and have a friendly connection. But I've also seen many people who do the friend thing really well, but find out that the girls wouldn't want to 'ruin a friendship' and would rather have had the guy ask them out from the onset. Depends on the person and the situation.

Very, very true I know from experience you're right here Alex. I've been stuck in the friend zone before so if you want to wait a while, that's okay just don't wait to long. Attempt to read her body language, she if she is flirting. Or if you don't want to wait through all of that just ask her out, I generally tend to take things step by step, but everyones different and over the next few years chances are you will find out what works for you and what to do.