No boyfriend..... :(

[crazyf]

I am 14 female, and i have never had a boyfriend.....
I really want a boy friend but i would never ask a boy out!
I live in Japan, and in Japan guys r really shy so girls ask guys out but i dont wanna do that. (i mean, Girls give chocolates to guys on valentines day)???
Anyways, i feel like im left behind an i hate it......
Oh, and i go to a private japanese school, so no international boys, all japanese :(

Any1 else feel like this or does some1 have any advice?????

[Kahn]

Well what you must do is muster up the courage to be able to ask someone out lol. I mean it isn't just going to happen and by what your saying I'm guessing that you already have a boy that you have a crush on or something. What you should do is start getting to know someone, take it slow, and if he seems interested (which boys usually are if you are good friends or are fun to be around) ask him out.

Hope this helps.

[Ripplemagne]

You're fourteen? Shut up about boyfriends and actually get a life. Work on being "me" before being "us".

[Triceratops]

Well, I'm 16 next month and I can't even remember the last time I had a boyfriend.
I can't say I'm particularly fussed on having one either, unless someone happens to come along. Boyfriends and relationships don't interest me right now. Most guys = good friends for now.

Focus on having a good time with your friends and your hobbies or something, if you actually have any.

You're fourteen? Shut up about boyfriends and actually get a life.

Quoted for the truth.

[Blue63]

15, never had a girlfriend. I know it's hard to muster up the courage to ask someone out, believe me.

You're 14, and no matter how mature you think you are, you don't need one. I know you want one and are craving affection, but if you want a boy friend you need to get up the courage to ask someone out you like. No you don't have to, because I don't really think its neccesary right now. But if you're dying for one, you have to bite the bullet.

[kyle95]

i know what you're saying. it's not so much the physical thing as it is being seen courting. well from what i know, japanese lads are for the most part quite mannerly. once you see the right chap, approach him and just be nice. after a few times, you may say such things as, "it sure would be nice if a chap asked me out", etc. it sounds like you're quite opinionated, that ought to get someone's attention soon. good luck!

[alex95]

Maybe they are scarred of you lots of guys are nervous like maybe they don't know if there ready what will there mom's think i think that's whats going through their minds...

[Stewart]

Sooner or later, you'll find someone that you really like and you won't be able to resist asking him out. :)