My Brother

[Kahn]

Last December I was shoveling snow. My older Brother (Who was 18) was acting really strange that morning. When I was shoveling snow it was me and him at home alone. All of a sudden he bursts out of the house yelling at me. The reason? I still have no idea. Well he took me inside with my shovel and threw me on the ground. I burst out into tears and he told me that I was being a baby and started to punch me really hard. In the face and legs. I was bleeding and everything and my Knees and Cheekbones haven't recovered from him hitting me. What should I do? I mean he is my Hero but he hurt me terribly. He saved me from my dad.. Should I tell someone or should I just keep it to myself. I don't want him to get into any trouble.

[Delusion15]

Tell somebody. If he has never acted like this before do you know if he is taking any drugs. This sounds like it. If this continues or if he has a drug problem tell somebody before it gets really bad.

Edit: just realized it said last December how has he been since then if he has continued to be abusive in anyway tell somebody if he hasn't then talk to him

[Kahn]

No. He is awesome towards me but last year he had some really weird friends. He's in college now going for Creative Writing. If anybody goes to Epic forums they might know the Fan fic Warren. Anyway he's yelled at me like my dad but he hurt me so bad. My cheekbones are like always bruised. He hasn't acted like this towards me before or after. I'm pretty sure he doesn't do drugs. I mean he has like the best girlfriend ever she's a nice girl, (Still a virgin because she is Christian and believes in sex after marriage) and she treats me like her child. She makes him happy and barely ever yells anymore. But this incident I will always remember. Who should I tell?

[Fusion]

I would go and tell someone personally but I can see you don't want to because he has done good things in the past for you. If it has happened once what is it stopping him from doing it again?, I know thats a horrible thing to say but its the truth.

Do you talk to your mother? or how about a Councillor, family friend or someone along those lines :)

He could be taking drugs behind your back (at college) etc, without your knowing so. It could of been he was under a lot of pressure at the time is that so?.

I would go to the doctors and get the bruises check out to see you haven't broken or fractured anything

Also you could go and talk to him about it, in a public place of course so he couldn't hurt you, ask him if everything is alright :)

I do hope you chose the right decision that you are happy with, any probs just give me a pm :)

[Kahn]

Well in like 2 weeks we are leaving our temporary home in Ohio to go visit him at College in NY. I will talk to him at the Lunch hall with my Mom. I will make sure of it. Thanks for the advice and I will hope the best will happen.

[Delusion15]

good luck buddy

[Fusion]

Well in like 2 weeks we are leaving our temporary home in Ohio to go visit him at College in NY. I will talk to him at the Lunch hall with my Mom. I will make sure of it. Thanks for the advice and I will hope the best will happen.

I hope you get the answers you are after :)

[alex95]

My cousin started acting like that ever since he started smoking weed and drinking

[Shenron]

You might want to talk to your mom about this first, if you spring something like that on her in the middle of a lunch hall, she might freak. And, you don't want to embarrass your brother, so I would talk to her on the way to the college.

[Kahn]

Thats some good advice. I will do that as soon as we get into NY.

[Shenron]

My pleasure :) I'm here to help ;)

[Golddron]

yes, you should definitely bring your mom up to speed on things BEFORE going to see your brother. That way if he can provide a reasonable excuse, he wont have to engage in an argument to say it.

[clone]

well just keep us updated maybe something made him mad

[Spook]

You should definately tell somebody. If you don't, he could do it again and that time there could be worse consequences. Like somebody said earlier, he may be on drugs, or drinking. That can be a problem for both his health and yours. Until you hav told somebody, try to keep away from him and don't provoke him. Good luck, Caitlin

[Fiction]

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