Need advice soon!!

[megan1295]

ok so there is this guy i like and i want to ask him out,but i am afraid that if i do it well ruin our friendship and i well be reject.and after that it would be weird because i have all my classes with him.also how do i tell if this guy like me. i mean he smile at me a lot and we talk alot and have alot in common. we talk about thing outside of school and things. keep it clean guys i am 13 almost 14:what:

[aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagg]

Well, maybe you can get one of your other friends to ask him if he likes you, or you can just ask him yourself. If you're worried about messing up our friendship then maybe going with the first option would be better. In fact, maybe not dating him would be best because if you do break up then your friendship will change. Your decision though.

[Sugaree]

Try getting one of your other friends to ask him. Just make sure you don't pick a friend who will spread it all over the school and make it sound like you're madly in love! If he does return your feelings, then take it from there and try to get to know each other a bit better. I wish you the best of luck.

[Beautiful Obsession]

well if you get on with this boy, why dont you just be straight with him? It doesnt have to be face to face either, how about just text him.but say if he doesnt like you in that way you dont want it to effect your friendship.. so if he doesnt like you that way you'l stil be good maytes?

you wont find out unless you try? x

[kipper]

just tell him how you feel and if he says no just stay friends not a lot of guys will say no to a date unless they find you repulsive which if your friends he obviously does not i wish all girls had the courage to ask boys out us boys find it very hard to gather the courage rejection hurts a mans pride a lot but being asked out improves it along with improving his confidence good luck with him!

[Grey fox]

It sounds like you guys are pretty close, so maybe start flirting more with him and say little comments like "I'd like to ask you out but i'm too scared of being rejected" I said that once to a guy and he said he felt the same back! (We're now officially a couple..)

You can't know until you ask, but if you're not up to doing it yourself, try asking a mutual friend to ask him.

Remembe rthough, a friend-ship is an inclusive relationship, whereas dating is exclusive.