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bud2.0
October 3rd, 2009, 05:01 PM
okay nothing about techniques or anything i just want to know y
1) how come if im lying down i can ejaculate really fast but if im standing it takes forever
2) how come in the shower 1 i can barely get it up and 2 why cant i cum in the shower

alex95
October 3rd, 2009, 05:02 PM
well maybe its because u have to stand up i suggest when ur in the shower go fast and hard after a few minutes of jacking off and keep going fast and hard until it starts feeling reall good then u cum...

pontiacdriver
October 4th, 2009, 02:38 AM
Everything boils down to being comfortable when you masturbate, and my guess is the positions which you mention clearly do not work for you unlike lying down. The reality is that when one stands up that there is a lot of pressure on the legs which you don't have laying down which allows one to relax. Also, environment is very important in being able to "perform," and cold damp showers or bathrooms in general usually are not as condusive as a bedroom when it comes to generating romantic feelings.

diamond jetstream
October 4th, 2009, 06:49 AM
i have the same problem it takes me like half an hour to do it in the shower and standing up takes about twenty minutes for the lying down thing its because your muscles are stretched out and it makes the whole area more relaxed and for the shower thing if the water is fairly hot the yur snsitivity in your dick and balls is substantially less thean when you hve warm or moderate temp water try it also dont let the water hit the head of your penis cause that stops you ejaculating. :) hope i helped

nick
October 4th, 2009, 07:22 AM
I think its just a question of where you feel most comfortable and most relaxed, for many of us that will be on our bed. I don't find it easy to cum in a shower, this has been discussed before - do a search, this is quite common.

hiker1992
October 4th, 2009, 09:39 PM
1) Standing up tends to take you out of your comfort zone, and a lot of people find it very difficult to become aroused enough to ejaculate if they themselves just aren't comfortable. But really, unless you feel it adds to the experience in some way, why not just do it lying down?
2) In the shower, again, it all has to do with comfort, however, the water may have something to do with it as well. A lot of people think of water as a lubricant, when in fact it can give a sort of resistant effect, and decrease the sensitivity of your penis.

trouble
October 4th, 2009, 11:17 PM
i have the same problem it takes me like half an hour to do it in the shower and standing up takes about twenty minutes for the lying down thing its because your muscles are stretched out and it makes the whole area more relaxed and for the shower thing if the water is fairly hot the yur snsitivity in your dick and balls is substantially less thean when you hve warm or moderate temp water try it also dont let the water hit the head of your penis cause that stops you ejaculating. :) hope i helped

how long are your showers

Enormous
October 5th, 2009, 02:07 AM
I've been able to cum while in the shower before but it isn't the same as somewhere like your bed :)