question about condoms?

[ashdyn]

Ok, so I have a girlfriend and we've been having sex. Since I can't cum (I'm a very late bloomer) we haven't used a condom. Well I just started pre-cumming and I'm scared I'll cum in her. Being a late bloomer, I have a very small penis (about 3.5inches) and it's thin...about the same thickness as one of those big dry erase markers. :[

So0o0o0o....here's the problem.
My friend gave me a condom and showed me how to put it on and everything...but it wont fit. I unroll it once and then it just falls off. :/

What do I do??

I'm done ranting...
Any advice please?

[Cody_Metalhead]

Try a different brand or size.
:D

[lilhellboii]

well i dont have a advice... just wait until ur dick grow more and it would be all better! and well still have sex and when u feel something is coming just take ur dick out of her!!

[DarkWingedAngel]

Well if it's really that hard to get a condom to fit
take note of the size
try a small or XS if they have em
just look around you will find one that works

but that you want to do is pull out before you feel it coming
because even the pre-cum that comes before actual cum still can cause pregnancy.
so unless you want a kid
ether see if she can get on the pill or have a condom



that is all.

[kyle95]

mate, i'm assuming she's close to your age, therefore she may want to consider the pill. that way you can quit focussing on your size and just be with her, pleasure her and have fun. good luck

[adam1995]

I don't think there any condoms made to fit penises that are that small. I could be wrong.... I recommend avoiding sex until you can use a condom.

[Rutherford The Brave]

If you are going to have sex WEAR A CONDOM. I can't stress that enough, it doesnt matter what you can and can't do wear one.

[Fusion]

First of all how old are you? If you are older than 15 and not being able to ejaculate I would go and see a doctor :)

I would go to the store/ wherever sells condoms and see if they have smaller ones (they are bound to have some)

[nick]

well i dont have a advice... just wait until ur dick grow more and it would be all better! and well still have sex and when u feel something is coming just take ur dick out of her!!
Listen, sorry to say this, but that ^^^ is terrible advice.

You can make a girl pregnant from precum, and you might fail to pull out in time. Seriously do not rely on pulling out as a method of contraception, its not safe and doesnt work!

You wont be able to buy condoms as small as you've described, a waste of time trying, so you need to consider other forms of contraception. Yes, if she can get on the pill, and take it reliably, that would be effective. But honestly if you cant find a method thats available to you you really should hold off the vaginal sex until you're big enough for the condom.

Sorry if that sounds tough advice, but do you really want to risk getting her pregnant?

[blingibong]

riteeee..... best thing is find a diff brand or a brand that makes diff sizes i had that problem... i no wa ur going through at 11 :( my mates dared me to wear one and i did it jst fell off

[Grey fox]

EEEEE! Fool!

PRE-CUM CONTAINS SPERM. End of.

It would be better for her to go on the pill if you can't find any that will fit you.

And visit your doctor for some growth hormone stuff. Won't hurt to try it!

[safeboy360]

u do knwo the guy hu started this is only 13...................

[alexpop]

idk but this what iwill do when i feel i m about to cum i just take my penis away from her vagina than wank and cum somewhere else

[pontiacdriver]

Ok, so I have a girlfriend and we've been having sex. Since I can't cum (I'm a very late bloomer) we haven't used a condom. Well I just started pre-cumming and I'm scared I'll cum in her. Being a late bloomer, I have a very small penis (about 3.5inches) and it's thin...about the same thickness as one of those big dry erase markers. :[

So0o0o0o....here's the problem.
My friend gave me a condom and showed me how to put it on and everything...but it wont fit. I unroll it once and then it just falls off. :/

What do I do??

I'm done ranting...
Any advice please?

You raise an interesting problem here, and if you cannot fit into a standard size condom, then the onus of birth control is going to have to fall onto your girlfriend. Having sex with condoms is really important if your girlfriend is not on birth control, but if she is on birth control, then you are pretty safe not using condoms as long as she takes her medication properly and that she has had enough time for the medication to take effect.

Now if your girlfriend cannot get started on birth control and you cannot fit into condoms, then I really think you have to hold off on sex. I am sorry if that sounds harsh, but the reality is that condoms protect against so many other things than just pregnancy as you always have to be mindful of STDs. Especially with your pre-cumming now your first ejaculation is getting really close, and you are playing Russian Roulette if you get into the habit of having sex without condoms and having a partner not using birth control.

Have you tried different brands of condoms? Sometimes if you experiment with different brands, then you might have better luck. Your local Target or Wal-Mart has a section for condoms by the Pharmacy, and try different brands as you might have better luck with a Lifestyles, Trojan, Durex, etc.


I am sorry that I don't have better advice for you here, but either your partner gets started on birth control, or you should hold off on sex until you can get into a condom.

[safeboy360]

idk but this what iwill do when i feel i m about to cum i just take my penis away from her vagina than wank and cum somewhere else

tht wont help becoz as said before even precum can get a girl prngent and over 50% of teenage prenagcys r becoz of boys like u thinking that they can jus take it out when ur bout to cum and it will do tthe job well it doesn;t !!!!! so jus wait untill u can get a comdom or ask the girl to weara femidom or go on the pill

[loz4]

I don't think you should be having sex at 13, wait at least until 16. AT LEAST even then i don't recommend it, If you can't wear a condom then don't do it, mainly because of the chance of pregnancy. Harsh advice but I think you should stop.

[mrmcdonaldduck]

well, maybe to prevent std's your gf can use contraception. it would be the safest thing to do, but i dont know where you would buy them. ( i only know about it from seinfeld (: )

[ashdyn]

hmmm...thanks for the advice guys. i'll try different brands....i didnt know they have other sizes that went smaller.

if not....idk i guess we'll think about the pill.

[pontiacdriver]

hmmm...thanks for the advice guys. i'll try different brands....i didnt know they have other sizes that went smaller.

if not....idk i guess we'll think about the pill.

Just to give you a heads up, condoms generally come in two sizes: regular and extra large. To the best of my knowledge I am not aware of any condom out there which comes in an extra small size, but I suppose anything is possible. However, keep in mind that even if such condoms do exist it will probably be hard to find them at a regular store.

[Rutherford The Brave]

First off never have one with out the other. I found out the bad way, if you want to have sex maturily and like adults, rather than animals. Wear a dam condom and make sure she is on the pill or has one of those ring things.

[fordfan67]

i have the same problem. cant find one that will stay on

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