help

[Bigdill317]

ok i asked a girl out she said no. i talk to her still talk to her and i think she is starting to like me. i want to ask her out again but that would make me feel like a desperate . please help me ps this is bigdill317 freind

[Contra]

At least you have the guts to ask her out. Just wait a bit more so you can be sure she likes you, if that moment doesn't come, then you'll have to ask her out again, don't be afraid of the word "no". If she says that, perhaps it's time for you to move on... Good luck!

[mrmcdonaldduck]

give it time, if she seems to start to like you then risk it again but not if youve just asked her out.

[Ripplemagne]

Don't ask her again. Let her make it clear that she likes you before advancing, otherwise you look like a fool. She could just be being friendly and if you ask her out again, then she's going to completely disassociate with you.

[Aves]

Give it time, make sure she likes you to begin with, and don't be afraid of the word no.

[kyle95]

no need to ask her out mate. you'll get more out of being her friend. once she really likes you, she'll be the one to suggest you go out. so don't blow it and don't jump the gun, let her be comfortable around you :)

[kipper]

don't risk the friend ship you have built up wait till she starts giving you signs she is ready

[Grey fox]

If you keep on asking, she could either eventually give in, just to shut you up, or come to her senses and say yes. (The first one is more likely)

The best thing would be to contunue improving your relationship, and tell her that you would like to be more then friends, but you understand that may not be possible if she doesn't feel the same way.

The best way to take the pressure off would be to suggest going out together, like to see a film, as friends. This manes it isn't a date as such, but doesn't rule out any date stuff from happening!

Just take your time and allow romance to bloom.

[Ripplemagne]

Do. Not. Listen. To. Grey. Fox.

You will not only get labeled a stalker, but you'll probably get beat up by her male friends too. And if his advice works by some Godly miracle, it will break because she doesn't really like you.

Being pushy is just a good way for her to cut you off completely.

[Mave]

Ask yourself, "Would I rather have a chance at going out with her, or a continued friendship?"

If you really, really like her, then you might want to try again regardless of the risk to your friendship, but I'd advise you to wait. If it becomes very obvious that she likes you, then go for it - sometimes girls will say no before they really have a chance to think about it, especially if they feel pressured, and regret it later. However, it's also entirely possible she doesn't like you, but values you as a friend. If that's the case, it doesn't necessarily mean she'll never return your feelings, but I wouldn't ask again yet.