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[alex95]

Well i went to Jamaica this summer and this girl said she liked me and if i went out with her she would let me do her but i said no because i didnt like her and i wasnt ready and i told her to leave me alone and she said she is still preeing me preeing me in jamaican means (watching me) is this abuse?

[Amyxoxo]

No(i dont think), this is not abuse the just may be harrasment. If she carries on then tell someone like parents. Even further the poloice. x

[RaeNose]

What do you mean, "watching me", like "stalking you"?
Because if she is, you can speak to your parents about this and get a restraining order, if worst comes to worst.
I don't believe that it is technically abuse, but it's still not normal.

[alex95]

No(i dont think), this is not abuse the just may be harrasment. If she carries on then tell someone like parents. Even further the poloice. x

No she stopped but she is always looking at me or comming near me and i just leave walk away or hide

[Amyxoxo]

It is good that you are leavin her alone and are you making sure that you are being very clear how you feel. Next time you see her just walk right by her, dont even look at her or anything. Im sure she will get the message soon lol :) x

[nick]

No its not abuse, but may be harrasment or stalking. However how does she look at you or come near to you from Jamaica if you're in Florida?

[alex95]

No its not abuse, but may be harrasment or stalking. However how does she look at you or come near to you from Jamaica if you're in Florida?

AS u can see i was in Jamaica during the summer thats why i was glad i was only on vacation.

It is good that you are leavin her alone and are you making sure that you are being very clear how you feel. Next time you see her just walk right by her, dont even look at her or anything. Im sure she will get the message soon lol :) x

I hope so to.... Im guna block her out but like when i was in Jamaica there was a room a game room and it had ps3 and stuff and i was playing the ps3 and she came right over me and was talking to my friends and stuff right over me i just put down the control and left she creeps me out i talked to her dad and he doesn't know why she acts like that he lost control of her he cant even control her even if he beats her she doesn't care. Shes not any ordinary girl she told my sister about this one time when she was walking home alone these 2 guys raped her and then they payed her not to tell on them and she did accepted the money and didn't tell anyone but us...

[nick]

AS u can see i was in Jamaica during the summer thats why i was glad i was only on vacation.
Exactly, I'm just trying to make sense of what you've said. So it happened on vacation, how has it followed you home?

[alex95]

Exactly, I'm just trying to make sense of what you've said. So it happened on vacation, how has it followed you home?

I cant get it out of my head everytime i look at pictures of me in Jamaica i think about it because most of the places i went she just had to be...:(

[Rogue27]

Well try 2 tell yourself that you are ok. Try to think of good memories that you had without her being their. Try not to think about her. Ik it's hard but u can forget this. If anything you can tell your parents and they can help you further.

[Fusion]

Well i went to Jamaica this summer and this girl said she liked me and if i went out with her she would let me do her but i said no because i didnt like her and i wasnt ready and i told her to leave me alone and she said she is still preeing me preeing me in jamaican means (watching me) is this abuse?

NO it's not abuse if she is following you you or stalking you, then you would call the police or tell your parents :)
You have done the right thing by telling her to leave you alone she should of respected that

[alex95]

NO it's not abuse if she is following you you or stalking you, then you would call the police or tell your parents :)
You have done the right thing by telling her to leave you alone she should of respected that

The thing is i cant say shes stalking me because when i went there i was in a village and every store or building i went into she did to so it wasn't like she was following me outside so i couldn't say anything she only went in the buildings i did but there was this one building i went into with all family and she didn't come in because we would get her out :)

[Fusion]

The thing is i cant say shes stalking me because when i went there i was in a village and every store or building i went into she did to so it wasn't like she was following me outside so i couldn't say anything she only went in the buildings i did but there was this one building i went into with all family and she didn't come in because we would get her out :)

I think she is one of those people that when falls in love doesn't want to let you out of her sight. She might have been scared (most likely) of you whole family together, and if she got caught out she would be humiliated by your family

Basically it sounds like she was in every store you were at the time, so she of been stalking you, or she could of moved to a different store faster than you :)

[Shenron]

Watching you when you are not in a public place is harrassment, and an invasion of your privacy, and most importantly, illegal. If she is constantly making sexual advances toward you, I would call the police. That is considered sexual harrasment, and is a semi-serious offense. If it makes you that uncomfortable, I would talk to her parents, and yours. But one thing I don't understand is, If you went there this summer, and you are back, how is she watching you? Either that's not what you meant or, I don't understand. Hope this hleps ! :)

[alex95]

I think she is one of those people that when falls in love doesn't want to let you out of her sight. She might have been scared (most likely) of you whole family together, and if she got caught out she would be humiliated by your family

Basically it sounds like she was in every store you were at the time, so she of been stalking you, or she could of moved to a different store faster than you :)

Like i will be talking to my friend in the store because his mom is renting it from us and she just comes in there and starts talking to my friend with a spliff above her ear and a cup of rum and stuff mixed in it then he takes it from her and ask me if i want it i said no because i feel like i got set up he is trying to get me to go out with her too so i have to watch what i drink.

[Fusion]

Like i will be talking to my friend in the store because his mom is renting it from us and she just comes in there and starts talking to my friend with a spliff above her ear and a cup of rum and stuff mixed in it then he takes it from her and ask me if i want it i said no because i feel like i got set up he is trying to get me to go out with her too so i have to watch what i drink.

You aren't there anymore are u?, the easiest thing to say would be we have to go now, and move off :)

[Beautiful Obsession]

Its Not Abuse, But If It Happend While You Were On Vacation Then You Need To Put It Behind You.

xx