first kiss??

[love123]

iv'e been going out with a girl for 3 weeks now but i only see her in my youth club which is on once a week. I really like her and her friends tell me she really likes me. how do i know when the moment is right to kiss her for the first time?? Also i get nervous around her and so do not know what to talk about??? any ideas ??? also should i go in and kiss her or should i wait until she comes in and kisses me?????

[BeautifulSilence]

When the time comes for you two to share your first kiss, it'll just happen.

Once a week for three weeks is kinda similar to just three days... So that may be a bit soon for some people. On the other hand, I have wished people to kiss me after just meeting them... So it differs for everyone.

The cutest thing is when one person in a couple kisses the other on the forehead. This will show her that you want to kiss her, but you aren't pushing her into it. I personally LOVE it when someone kisses my forehead, then my cheek, then the other. It makes me melt, and I'm probably going to try to kiss them back.

As for conversations, you could try asking her if she's ready for you both to kiss. Saying something like "I really want to kiss you right now" is good because it's straight to the point. Plus, she'll either give you permission to kiss her by saying something like "Then kiss me" or she'll let you know that she wants to wait a bit longer (something like "I do too, but just not yet").

I hope this has helped :) Just remember not to rush anything, and if you both like each other, you'll find yourselves in a situation where it just feels right.

[Delusion15]

aww young love but anyway when it is time to you will know and just kinda lean into her a little bit and if she wants to kiss you she will lean in that last inches and then go for it. i know this is really vague but there really is no way to describe your first kiss it just sorta happens

oh the memories :)

[love123]

hi again! we were talking online last night and she asked me "will you snog me on friday which is when we see each other next in youth group!!! i replied :O and :D!! what should this sighn mean and what should i tel her. of course i want to kiss her to but some advice would be grateful !!!

[TexasRangersKid]

this depends on how old you are im guessing your younger, there's a moment you feel, it's usually when your alone and you are looking into each others eyes, atleast that was my first kiss experience, but you feel it, wait until shes relaxed to girls don't like awkward places where they feel taken advantage of.

1)pick your moment, quiet and calm, where you are both together in peace
2)it's an undescribable feeling you will know when the moment is right
3)depends on her but get flirty first hold her hand hug her definitely compliment her maybe how she smells.

cheers

[kyle95]

mate, you haven't gone out with her that long. be patient. there's lots to consider before kissing: your breath, complexion, the clothes and cologne your wearing - things she'll remember or wish to forget, at least that's what my gf said to me. thankfully it was all positive.

get to know her more, be her friend and quit sizing her up for 'the kiss'. girls have a great habit of kissing blokes when they least expect it, give her that chance.

as for your nervousness, it's normal but you ought to control it because it tells her you're reacting to her presence and nervousness is one of the signs of anticipation. for a girl to trust you, it's not a good thing to show that you're anticipating something more than what's taking place, usually a conversation - kinda like a bloke sweating bullets before holding up a bank. so lose the nervousness or learn to control it. good luck


just read this part: "hi again! we were talking online last night and she asked me "will you snog me on friday which is when we see each other next in youth group!!! i replied :O and !! what should this sighn mean and what should i tel her. of course i want to kiss her to but some advice would be grateful !!!"

right, she's not that shy, she's being a girl and feeling safe behind her computer. don't make the mistake and assume she'll be that confident in person. respect her no matter what, and as TEXASRANGERSKIDS says, hold her hand first and hug her. you'll know when it's the right time, it's the beauty of love mate, it's instinct. you can write about all you want but you have to experience it to truly know.

[anime Freak]

its all about timing, give her a hug and look into her eyes,if she gives a lokk you will no its the time to try, but the sad thing is is that many guys cant pick up on what each look and signal means, i am one of the lucky ones that knows what they mean on a subconcious level

[zoom zoom]

well you shoud really wait when you think its a right time. because some girls wait for the guy to make the first move, but for 3 weeks for me i think thats a little to early but thats my opinion.

[lipstick_kisses23]

maybe when you go and greet her you should give her a kiss =], thats always a confidence booster and hints at a goodbye kiss too.

Good Luck!

~kuppy~

[tyler_52]

When the time comes for you two to share your first kiss, it'll just happen.

Once a week for three weeks is kinda similar to just three days... So that may be a bit soon for some people. On the other hand, I have wished people to kiss me after just meeting them... So it differs for everyone.

The cutest thing is when one person in a couple kisses the other on the forehead. This will show her that you want to kiss her, but you aren't pushing her into it. I personally LOVE it when someone kisses my forehead, then my cheek, then the other. It makes me melt, and I'm probably going to try to kiss them back.

As for conversations, you could try asking her if she's ready for you both to kiss. Saying something like "I really want to kiss you right now" is good because it's straight to the point. Plus, she'll either give you permission to kiss her by saying something like "Then kiss me" or she'll let you know that she wants to wait a bit longer (something like "I do too, but just not yet").

I hope this has helped :) Just remember not to rush anything, and if you both like each other, you'll find yourselves in a situation where it just feels right.

me and my girlfriend shared our first in her basement .. i came in about 78% then she came the other 22%

[Misty.]

y dont u jst talk abt the stuff...may be kinda hinting dat u want to kiss her....u cud ask abt her opnion n all...

or may b just jump forward n give her a peck on forehead..n if she reacts normaly...go for cheek...d nxt time...n den may be go for d lips :P n keep it quick...if her reaction is normal..den u cud think of..u kno...making it a proper kiss :D

[love123]

Hi!! i think i'm ready to go for it but 1 more question !! on your first kiss should it be on lips or cheeks?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????????????????????????????????????//:what::wub::yummy:

[Mikey]

My first kiss was on the first date with a girl a day before my birthday this summer when i was still 14. I told her she made the day perfect and she said "Its about to get even perfecter, heres your first kiss"

But all you have to do is get close to her and hold her.

[DarkWingedAngel]

frankly all you have to do is wait for the moment to happen
my very first kiss was sorta awkward and most of em are but what id do is hold her really really close to your body lean in a few inches from her lips and she if she goes the rest of the way
if not then kiss her cheek or forehead and wait till she leans in too.