I think I'm bi

[Stewart]

Okay so here it goes,

I have been attracted to girls my entire life, however, i have always had this sense that I also liked guys. I didn't think about it much though. In six grade we watched a movie and a guy came on and I thought, "wow, that's guys hot". Afterwards, I was mad at myself I thought I wasn't gay because I still had an attraction to girls. Now I'm a freshmen in Highschool and the past 2 years I've been having these feelings. I told a girl that I was bi and she was fine with it.

Now, I don't know if I am or not.

When I masturbate I "act out" making out with a guy. It turns me on. I like looking at penises as well as vaginas. I am really confused. I think I'm bi and now all of my close friends think I'm bi I mean I can imagine having a boyfriend and I would like it. I like the idea of having a boyfriend I don't know. By the way I'm 15

I need help:eek:

[Grey fox]

No you don't, just be happy with whatever you feel like doing or swing towards.

There's no problem in being bi, means you get the best of both worlds after all ;)

[Stewart]

Thanks a lot. It's just all really confusing!

Okay, I'm starting to feel weird. Like I'm so confused. Ugh

Please use edit feature instead of double posting, thanks! ~IAMWILL

[MichaelAdams1993]

Well, just remember that being gay means that you have a sexual AND emotional attraction to someone of the same sex. So if your attraction the same sex is just sexual/physical, then I would say you are straight. But if you feel both for both sexes then I would say bi.

[gnome]

nah manl, you aint bi, you full blown gay

[IAMWILL]

nah manl, you aint bi, you full blown gay

And that is not true at all.

There is nothing at all wrong with being Bi, a lot of people consider themselves Bi in high school actually. Either you are Bi or its just puberty, we can't tell right now, but you'll know later on in life, it'll come to you. Don't worry about it though, you are who you are, and nothing should make you change that.

[daveywavey]

Only you know what u are in ur heart and only u can make the final decision. I myself am bi alltho I like boys a bit more granted I havnt told many people like u. U still shouldn't be ashamed you are a beautiful human being

[Stewart]

Okay, realization:

I don't care if it's a guy or girl, as long as we love eachother. I want a boyfriend and want to kiss a guy. I don't know what this means.

Any advice?

[Severus Snape]

Hey Parker!

Don't worry too much about it man. It sounds to me like you are bi. Welcome to the club! Don't be afraid of who you are and deal with these feelings carefully. Don't try to go after any meat that doesn't swing your way, if you know what I mean. As long as you don't become too forward with a lot of your guy friends, things should stay relatively normal.

Good luck!

[Stewart]

Hey Parker!

Don't worry too much about it man. It sounds to me like you are bi. Welcome to the club! Don't be afraid of who you are and deal with these feelings carefully. Don't try to go after any meat that doesn't swing your way, if you know what I mean. As long as you don't become too forward with a lot of your guy friends, things should stay relatively normal.

Good luck!

Yes, I'm pretty confident I am bi. I mean, I don't just want a girlfriend, I would love a boyfriend too, I just love both!

You're right about the guy thing. I told one of my guy friends I wasn't straight, and he always cracks jokes about it! It's really annoying.

Thank you very much!

[delete.please]

You'll probably figure it out in due time. If you have both a physical and emotional attraction to both genders, then yeah, you're bi.

[thepieman]

Yes, I'm pretty confident I am bi. I mean, I don't just want a girlfriend, I would love a boyfriend too, I just love both!

You're right about the guy thing. I told one of my guy friends I wasn't straight, and he always cracks jokes about it! It's really annoying.

Thank you very much!

Don't worry about the jokes, my mates do it sometimes but they'd never mean to purposefully hurt me, so just ignore the odd joke, they're messing around.

I understand exactly how you feel mate. You possibly are bi, but don't worry about it, I wan't both as well lol. Just make sure you a happy and comfortable with who you are.

If you've got any problems just message me, I'm happy to help! :hug:

[nick]

It does sound to me as if you are bi, but I'm not really sure how you need help. Does it worry you to be bi, its just part of you, not something you can control or should feel any shame or guilt over. Sure life would seem simpler if you were straight, tell me about it. pm me if you want to talk or compare notes.

[Stewart]

Thanks Nick and thepieman, now, I just need to accept it.

[Steve1993]

Your in the same boat as me except I'm pretty positive i'm Bi because I fancy guys loads and girls the same. I have erotic dreams about both.
Dont do what I just did though. see my thread.

[Aspiringanonymous]

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