just started jacking off and Im worried about stuff Im attracted to... am I gay?

[Alan1996]

I am 13 and I recently started jacking off... I am kinda worried because I think I might be gay... I think this for a few reasons...

reason 1.) for as long as I can remember I have liked to wear diapers... I wear them cause I have always wet the bed at night... the first time I jacked off I was wearing a wet diaper at night in my bed... now I really like to jerk off wearing diapers and peeing and jacking off in them...

reason 2.) whenever I jack off I really want to eat my stuff... but as soon as I shoot I dont want to eat it anymore...

these to things make me think I might be gay... but I really like girls... and I dont want to be gay... what should I do?

[Mikey]

Bisexual maybe.

And the diapers i have no comment as its your choice. I for one haven't worn a diaper for maybe around 13 or 12 years

[Alan1996]

Bisexual maybe.

And the diapers i have no comment as its your choice. I for one haven't worn a diaper for maybe around 13 or 12 years

yeah I know its weird... I dont know why Im that way... I am just worried that it means I am gay... I mean one time my older sister caught trying to sneak diapers out my little brother's room and she told me that only people that are gay would wear diapers...

that and the wanting to eat my own stuff thats why I am worried I might be gay... cause only gay guys like to wear diaper(my sister says) and only gay guys eat man stuff... right?

[Alan1996]

how can a person be bisexual? I mean dont you have to like boys or girls? both seems crazy

[that kid]

I dont really think diapers have anything to do with being gay...

[Alan1996]

I dont really think diapers have anything to do with being gay...

so my sistter is full of crap?

[that kid]

I've never heard anything about gay people liking diapers... I may be wrong though. But everyone , straight and gay, has their strange turn ons

[Alan1996]

so basically... Im not gay because of the diapers... just a weird kid?

what about the wanting to eat my own stuff??? that one still worries me

[that kid]

Everyone's weird in their own way but yea pretty much. As for the eating it... not quite sure. My friend told me he has before but I'm pretty sure he's straight.

[Alan1996]

Everyone's weird in their own way but yea pretty much. As for the eating it... not quite sure. My friend told me he has before but I'm pretty sure he's straight.

so maybe not gay? good I was kinda worried... how normal is it to eat your stuff?

[that kid]

I couldn't say. Look being gay means being attracted to men. Are you attracted to men?

[Alan1996]

I couldn't say. Look being gay means being attracted to men. Are you attracted to men?

no... I really like girls... I was just worried thats all... cause I really dont want to be gay

[that kid]

well then in that case you're not gay...

[Alan1996]

well then in that case you're not gay...

awesome!:D

[Alan1996]

You're a fucking freak.


lol I kinda figured that out myself :P

[daveywavey]

Lol as I always say to each his own amirite?

[Alan1996]

so basically there is nothing wrong with me... just a little weird?

[Contra]

There are people that eat their stuff, it's kinda normal. About the diapers, that's the weirdest part, but if you have incontinence is probably the best thing.
About your question, you're only gay if you are attracted to guys, so like you said, you're just a bit weird... :P

[Severus Snape]

That is not the definition of bisexual or gay. Perhaps its just a fetish.

Being gay is being attracted to members of the same sex. Unless you are thinking of naked guys when you jack off, or feel romantically inclined towards other guys, you are not gay

[guacamole24]

I don't see how any of this really directly relates to being gay.... are you attracted to other men at all? If so, it's a possibility. Enjoy your sexuality and worry about it when you get older.

[Alan1996]

are you attracted to other men at all?

well unless you count David Bowie from The Labrinth (its an old show that my grandma has on some old video recorder thing, its actually pretty cool but i think it was made in the late 70's, it has talking worms and goblins... I told my grandma I wanted to watch a new movie and she said, "well this one is only a few years old..." lol :D)

but no i was just joking

[Blue63]

Yeah...you're not gay. Eating your own stuff, I think that's just kind of an in the moment thing, if you want to it's not completely uncommon, I haven't personally, but that's just me.

I'd be careful, did you say your sister called you gay? I'd be careful when interpreting that word, right now with the average american teenager, gay is just the term for "uncool," not often does it mean homosexual anymore.

[Delusion15]

The diapers thing is nothing but a fetish. there are many many fetishes in the world and i have heard of that one many times so don't worry to much about that and in no way can you be gay if you are not physically attracted to men. by the way if you are attracted to males there is nothing wrong with it just pointing that out

[Alan1996]

The diapers thing is nothing but a fetish. there are many many fetishes in the world and i have heard of that one many times so don't worry to much about that and in no way can you be gay if you are not physically attracted to men. by the way if you are attracted to males there is nothing wrong with it just pointing that out

yeah I know... I mean I messed around a little with a guy friend of mine and it was fun but I like girls mostly... I mean I would be worried about how my 'rents and family would react if I was gay... so I cant be gay... or even bisexual for that matter

I have been reading that guys mess around and it doesnt make them gay...

maybe I'm just afraid of a title?

[Blue63]

yeah I know... I mean I messed around a little with a guy friend of mine and it was fun but I like girls mostly... I mean I would be worried about how my 'rents and family would react if I was gay... so I cant be gay... or even bisexual for that matter

maybe I'm just afraid of a title?

Then don't worry about it, be you, whatever you are you'll be fine. Don't give yourself a title.

[daveywavey]

alan you are freakin awesome dude LOL

[Alan1996]

alan you are freakin awesome dude LOL


lol i dont hear that much... well maybe on vidgames :yeah:

[that kid]

Gay, bi, straight, doesn't really matter. Just be your weirdly awesome self XD

[Alan1996]

Gay, bi, straight, doesn't really matter. Just be your weirdly awesome self XD

ha ha :yeah:

[pontiacdriver]

I am 13 and I recently started jacking off... I am kinda worried because I think I might be gay... I think this for a few reasons...

reason 1.) for as long as I can remember I have liked to wear diapers... I wear them cause I have always wet the bed at night... the first time I jacked off I was wearing a wet diaper at night in my bed... now I really like to jerk off wearing diapers and peeing and jacking off in them...

reason 2.) whenever I jack off I really want to eat my stuff... but as soon as I shoot I dont want to eat it anymore...

these to things make me think I might be gay... but I really like girls... and I dont want to be gay... what should I do?

Based upon what you are describing above and your subsequent posts there is nothing to indicate that you are gay or bi-sexual. To be either of those you need to want BOTH an emotional and physical relationship with someone of the same sex. Generally speaking certain actions do not make you gay per se unless you are actually performing sexual acts upon someone of the same sex.

As for your diaper issue, there is actually a fetish out there with folks who are perfectly straight but enjoy being in a diaper. I forget the name of the fetish, but your issue is not really uncommon. (A fetish is bascially a sexual preference to keep things simple). Fetishes are usually not harmful as long as you are not hurting anyone or doing anything that hurts yourself. My suggestion is probably to hold off on your diaper fetish until you are older for the simple fact that diapers are expensive, and I am sure your parents are going to really start noticing that the diaper supply is going low fast. There is nothing wrong with this issue, and it does not make you gay. I think your sister was just being mean if you ask me. The word "gay" is sadly sometimes used interchangably with "bad" or "abnormal."

As for wanting to eat your semen, again, that is not uncommon among guys. Eating your own semen doesn't make you gay, and your desire to do so is just curiousity of your new abilities most likely. Now, if you are eating other people's semen, then that could be a sign that you are gay. However, based upon what you are telling us your desire to eat your semen is not really sexual as best as I can tell.

Basically, you don't seem gay to me. Even if you do turn out to be gay, then it is normal, and it is nothing bad. However, if you are new to puberty, then just give yourself time to figure things out as in puberty folks get turned on by anything and everything. In short, don't overanalyze things, and you will figure things out in time.

[Alan1996]

My suggestion is probably to hold off on your diaper fetish until you are older for the simple fact that diapers are expensive, and I am sure your parents are going to really start noticing that the diaper supply is going low fast. There is nothing wrong with this issue, and it does not make you gay

well I actually wet the bed so my parent allow me to wear diapers and they pay for them... kinda works out... lol :yeah:

[allenandrew43]

hey thats good cause im 16 and jack off in diapers too

[Magenta]

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