Does this seem right? Also some help

[Mikey]

Recently I've been flirting with two girls and my ex recently came back and told me she loves me and i said i loved her back.

Basically one of the flirting is all sexual talk and the other is cute like "I wanna hold you." and "Your so pretty or cute or hot" ect. I really don't know what to do. I told my really good friend this and she called me a manwhore jokingly but I think I'm starting to be one. I really have no idea what to do since my ex really does love me now or so she says but refer to this link. Shes the first ex.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=53726

So basically I think in an attempt to get myself in a relationship and not feel lonely I ended up getting caught in between girls.

Any tips or comments are always appreciated.

[Miss Sarah]

The first issue should be, Do YOU love your ex girlfriend in return or have feelings for one of the other two that are stronger?

Second, Stay away from the one who is all sexual talk. People whom can only talk about sex have nothing else to fall back on so they result to discussing the most primitive of discussion. She is probablly just a tease anyway, but think with your head not what neighbours your thighs.

[Mikey]

Okay thanks. Ill leave the lets call her a "wh*re" out of this. So one girl or my ex. Makes it a tiny bit easier.

Did i forget to mention my ex cuts... idk how often. But recently this guy left her and she cut her entire stomach up.

[kenoloor]

Okay thanks. Ill leave the lets call her a "wh*re" out of this. So one girl or my ex. Makes it a tiny bit easier.

Did i forget to mention my ex cuts... idk how often. But recently this guy left her and she cut her entire stomach up.

It really shouldn't matter whether or not your ex cuts, unless your a really shallow person.

And about your decision, I would just be wary of your ex. You guys broke up once for a reason, you don't want that to happen again. And when everything is said and done, we can't make the decision for you. That's your job.

[Darkness]

It really shouldn't matter whether or not your ex cuts, unless your a really shallow person.

And about your decision, I would just be wary of your ex. You guys broke up once for a reason, you don't want that to happen again. And when everything is said and done, we can't make the decision for you. That's your job.

No, it does matter, you have to be a little more careful, just that bit more caring for it to work- so if you can't do that it would be better to ask Girl one, not that I'm saying you can't be that, you obviously can but just thought it wouldn't hurt to remind you.

[Art_dude]

I pretty much agree with Bobby. You two are exes for a reason - rekindling an old relationship probably isn't what both of you need right now. If you feel the need to be in a relationship than the girl who is flirting with you currently is something you should pursue. (the innocent one, not the slutty one)

[Mikey]

I pretty much agree with Bobby. You two are exes for a reason - rekindling an old relationship probably isn't what both of you need right now. If you feel the need to be in a relationship than the girl who is flirting with you currently is something you should pursue. (the innocent one, not the slutty one)

I think i agree with you the most. Because it might not be the best time since that ex put me into a depression for the better part of 6 to 8 months in which i did drugs, drank, and other stupid things. So yeah.

And the cutting part, she does it when she feels sad, and I really don't want her to so thats a reason I'm nervous about leaving her and dating someone else.

[Art_dude]

You can't be afraid of your girlfriend cutting should you leave her: It's scary to think about someone you care for hurting themselves but if she cares about you sooo much at 15? 16? to cut herself over a boyfriend then you need to get yourself out of that toxic environment.

[kyle95]

mate, your ex is an "ex" for a reason. keep it that way unless you like punishment. a knee-jerk response is no reason to bond yourself back to misery. move on. before you judge the girls, judge yourself first - dirty talk is reciprocal. are you encouraging it? if not, let her know that it make you feel uncomfortable. if she doesn't stop, walk away. that leaves you with the "cute" one. not bad mate :)

[Mikey]

mate, your ex is an "ex" for a reason. keep it that way unless you like punishment. a knee-jerk response is no reason to bond yourself back to misery. move on. before you judge the girls, judge yourself first - dirty talk is reciprocal. are you encouraging it? if not, let her know that it make you feel uncomfortable. if she doesn't stop, walk away. that leaves you with the "cute" one. not bad mate :)

Hahaha thankyou.

The dirty talk was making me uncomfortable and I'd kind of respond with a Oh??? kinda suprised. I did get myself out of the wh*re. Now I might have to with my ex.

[kenoloor]

No, it does matter, you have to be a little more careful, just that bit more caring for it to work- so if you can't do that it would be better to ask Girl one, not that I'm saying you can't be that, you obviously can but just thought it wouldn't hurt to remind you.

Okay I worded that wrong.

If she cuts, yes you do have to be more careful and caring. I was saying that shouldn't sway your decision AS much. If you cannot do that, then yes, you should avoid that.

I apologize for the misunderstanding.

[Mikey]

Okay I worded that wrong.

If she cuts, yes you do have to be more careful and caring. I was saying that shouldn't sway your decision AS much. If you cannot do that, then yes, you should avoid that.

I apologize for the misunderstanding.

It is perfectly fine