Help, kissing advice.

[tophat]

I've never realy properly kissed a girl, and ive heard that this weekend this girl i realy like is going to come onto me, i need help, i dont know how to kiss, and im afraid im going to be reli bad and shes going to laugh in my face, please someone help.

[kolte]

I doubt she will laugh at you, just go with the flow, and search google for kissing instructions.

[Aηdy]

I've never realy properly kissed a girl, and ive heard that this weekend this girl i realy like is going to come onto me, i need help, i dont know how to kiss, and im afraid im going to be reli bad and shes going to laugh in my face, please someone help.

its going to be my first time very soon... try google searching it.. but remember everyone has a first time, once the first one is over it wont be as bad, but i know how you feel!

[tophat]

yeah but all my friends are experianced and shes probly expecting me to be aswell

[kolte]

soooooooooo google search instruction on how to kiss.....unless you want me to slave for you and do it myself, like if your google search leaves cookies and you don't want poeple so see....

[tophat]

lol ive googled it b4 but never found any good sites

[Aηdy]

yeah but all my friends are experianced and shes probly expecting me to be aswell

i have told the person im hopefully going to kiss that i havent done it before and she said she would feel special if it was my first time with her, so you could tell her

[tophat]

i dont think i'll be telling her. and i dont get all this about using tongues.

[Aηdy]

neither do i really but ive spoken to a friend and she said to me just go for it dont worry it will be fine

[kolte]

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss. Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

http://www.links2love.com/love/romance/teens/teenskissgoldchair.jpg Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
http://www.links2love.com/love/romance/teens/kiss3.jpg

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss. http://www.links2love.com/love/romance/kissing_fish.jpg Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
http://www.links2love.com/love/romance/pictures/kiss_cple_bwsm.gif Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
http://www.links2love.com/love/romance/teens/kiss_begin.pg.jpg Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

[Elscire]

ohh? i though french kissing was a kiss on the cheek or a quick kiss. but its actually tongue kissing.

[krzwis]

nope....french style is full out tongue and all
also known as....making out


peck kissing is on cheek or on lips really quickly

[tophat]

ok so whats the most commonly known one sum1 would do?

[krzwis]

peck....thats what you ussually start off with, its also the least intimate and you can give to many people.

anything involving tongue is ussualy saved for deep relationships



although i sugest not kissing till 2-4 weeks into the relationship (unless you hope for a quick relationship)

[Aηdy]

there are alot of slang words for making out here in the UK such as pulling or snoging.. cant think of any more :eyeroll: but yeah :D

[krzwis]

yeah yeah yeah...all around the world

thing is, making out is more physicly lusting...also you'll be less likely to get away with making out versus pecking

[There_Goes_My_Life]

i dont think i'll be telling her. and i dont get all this about using tongues.

Me and my b/f make out all the time and don't use tongue... we did once and we're both in agreement that tongue is wierd... So my point is... to make out u don't need tongue!! Open mouthed long kissing is just as fun :)