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megan1295
September 27th, 2009, 08:22 PM
hey guys,
first let me thank you for helping me.
ok there is this guy i like and i think he likes me back.
we talk all the time. i want him to ask me out,i think he is but i dont know how to tell though, should i ask him out or just wait for him to ask me out.
and if i ask him out should i ask him in person or via text or email or like on facebook.
Thx for helping me

guys come on i really need your help

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Natoja12
September 27th, 2009, 09:58 PM
Personally I would give it some time. If he doesn't eventually I would text or email him. I'm 14 btw so depending on ur age u may wanna ask him in person, but I find it much easier by texting :)

kyle95
September 28th, 2009, 12:01 AM
texting is a good icebreaker. if you do ask him, keep it casual so he doesn't put his guard up. believe it or not, we like friendship too. he'd be just as happy if you just ask him to join you for a walk, just don't go anywhere remote where either of you may feel awkward. if he perceives you to be a good friend, you'll be well on your way to being his gf. good luck

cherry_boi
September 28th, 2009, 01:50 PM
he may b waiting for u to ask him, lol some guys r shy, i say go for it! in person/txt/e-mail doesn't matter....whatever works for u

Shalom
September 28th, 2009, 02:23 PM
I think you should give it time and not rush anything. If he is slow about it, and you feel the pressure to ask then ask him!

Aves
September 28th, 2009, 04:01 PM
Give it time, and also this is just my opinion : Email, text, Facebook, Myspace, etc. are terrible ways to ask someone out.

BigBoy63
September 30th, 2009, 07:31 PM
Nobody is gonna take u too seriously if u text them, trust me...

From past experiences i would say that if ur not a good face to face talker about serious stuff like that then i would simply call them. A phone call can be a lot deeper than some think.

But the best way is personally, but b4 u go askin. Give it some time. If he likes you then he will ask u out, don't stress it.

FunnyHaHa
October 1st, 2009, 03:18 PM
I have had this same experience. Thanks so much for all of the advice guys!

alex95
October 1st, 2009, 03:19 PM
ask him out through internet its easier for both you and him. Or text message dont wait on him to ask you out he can easily be stolen from you.

RaeNose
October 1st, 2009, 03:32 PM
If you're going to ask someone out.
DO NOT TEXT/EMAIL/MYSPACE/FACEBOOK/ETC. THEM!!
One, it's tacky.
Two, it doesn't show that you give a genuine interest in them.
You may have to ask him out, but give it some time before you go and do that. Personally, I believe that the guy should ask the girl out; however, if he's so shy that he throws up from the idea of asking someone out, then you're probably going to have to do that asking. If he isn't shy, then he has no excuse.

Grey fox
October 1st, 2009, 04:02 PM
Face - face, suggest hanging out sometime, like going to watch a film or something.

It can be a bit daunting to go on A DATE so start with little baby steps and just hang out together, its takes off the pressure, see?

If that goes really well, ask if next time it could be as a date.

kipper
October 4th, 2009, 01:38 PM
lives to short to wait lol us guys are very shy behind a manly macho shields just ask him if he says not just stay friends

Mave
October 4th, 2009, 11:55 PM
First of all, if you can help it it's best never to ask somebody out any other way than in person. Anything else is less meaningful, and doing it in person shows that you like them enough to do it despite your nervousness.

Second. I understand that it would be nice for him to ask you out, but sometimes if it isn't really clear they're liked, boys can be too shy to do it. If you really think he likes you, ask him out.

unknown2011
October 5th, 2009, 09:11 PM
when you tell somebody you like them, your not asking them out. so tell him you like him and go from there. i got this advice from a good friend. (a girl at that)