Help :(

[Sleepless_Shadow]

I havent cut for the last 31 days


Now i cant do this anymore, i dnt wana through away all my hard work but i cant take it anymore i am just about to, but i feel like i shouldnt, i think i just need reminding of the seriousness of what im doing because at the moment i dont care, im breaking down and i dont wana laybour my friends with picking up the pieces

[Shalom]

You could really hurt yourself. Cutting yourself is a downfall, you are doing so great 31 days with clean skin no scars! Find things to distract you from cutting, there are so many things you could do. Set goals, keep up with the good work. Most importantly be PROUD of who you are and make the best of it!

~ If you need anything feel free to PM me!

[Sleepless_Shadow]

Im covered im scars, constant reminders that tempt me, i just find it so hard

[Shalom]

You can get through it though, try talking to someone. This is something that is fixable/curable. Just be strong, and take it day by day. Figure out the problem, figure out ways to solve it, then solve it and move on from there!

[Hyper]

I havent cut for the last 31 days


Now i cant do this anymore, i dnt wana through away all my hard work but i cant take it anymore i am just about to, but i feel like i shouldnt, i think i just need reminding of the seriousness of what im doing because at the moment i dont care, im breaking down and i dont wana laybour my friends with picking up the pieces

You said it best yourself

If you do it your throwing away those 31 days and that is the coldest reality of it

[chelsay13]

ok, all i can say is go make ice cubes. it sounds stupid, but afterword you can squeeze them as much as you want. They cause pain, but they don't hurt you.

[Sleepless_Shadow]

Thank you so much to all of you, it means so much to me that you would take the time to try and help someone like me :)

[sarah newman]

31 days is great! Dont let that go to waste. If you feel the urge to cut, then go out, do a hobbie, something to keep your mind of it. Your doing great, welldone!

[Beautiful Obsession]

Dont Cut, And I Know Its Easier Said Than Done, But You've Done So Well Dont Ruin It Here, Yes, Its Hard,And Im Not Goin To Lie, It Will Get Harder, But In The End When You Can Finally Stop Cutting, It Will Be Worth It.

Go And Speak To Someone Who Can Help You, That Way Your Not Doing It On Your Own..

Entertain Yourself When You Want To Cut, Read A Book, Go Online, Go Out With Ya Mates, Go For A Walk.. Listen To Music Etc Etc, But VT Is Only A Website, Theres Only So Much People On Here Can Help..

xx Good Luck Babee:) xx

[vicky06kay]

cutting maybe a release... but in the end its not only yourself ur hurting.
i osted something similar about repeat self harm.
ask for help. thats what im going to do. :)

[dstnyisurs]

Love, thirty one days is AMAZING!
I'm so happy for you. (:

It gets hard and the temptation is there, but you just need to keep your head up. Setting goals is a very good idea - and you could try getting a small treat you absolutly love (a Hershy kiss, a Starburst, something like that) and getting a lot of them! A whole bag - maybe a few bags of Halloween candy. Every single day, if you haven't cut by after dinner (so that you don't get kept up by the sugar) have a candy. If you cut that night, or the following day, you can't have your candy. The trick is to keep the package or bowl in a place where only you are going to be dipping into it so you never run out, but you're always reminded of it and look foreward to it, so if you miss it, you'll be pissed.

I hope you eat lots of candy, love. (: You've done so well, you don't want to let that go I hope. You can always talk to me if you need to, pm's or instant messaging.

[Sleepless_Shadow]

Thankyou all so much for your support and wow that idea is really good