View Full Version : My Best Friend is my crutch
Delusion15
September 27th, 2009, 04:07 AM
Ever since we were little i have been best friends with my best friend. During the times when i was severely depressed or when i was doing weed and flunking school he always was there to help me through. Now i am a better person because he helped me through all those things.
Me and him have other friends and we both are in clubs and sports so it's not like we are always together but usually on the weekends either i am at his house playing call of duty or he is at my house for some co-op ODST;)
But sometimes i think of him like he is more than my friend. if you ask me my orientation i would say straight but sometimes i feel like i actually am you know attracted to him. is it because he is my best friend or what.
Ryhanna
September 27th, 2009, 05:44 AM
Thats sweet haha
I think your just curious, you know. Its okay to have a crush on him, he's your best friend and he's done so much for you. I feel the same way with my friend, you know. Im straight but because he's been there for me so much I feel emotionally and physically close to him. dont worry, your probably not gay or anything but just a little man crush haha bromance lol
Shalom
September 27th, 2009, 08:13 AM
Well you might have some sort of attraction just because you are so close. I think you should sit down put everything together and decide yourself if its an attraction type thing or just because you are close friends. Just remember he might not feel the same way, and that is completely okay.
cherry_boi
September 27th, 2009, 06:41 PM
lol it's called "guy love"
it's when 2 straight guys really care for/love each other but have no interest in perusing anything sexual
or if u do find him sexually attractive and wud mess around with him u may be bi ......
daveywavey
September 28th, 2009, 02:35 AM
I had a best friend like that too allthough my situation might be diff cuz I'm actually bi it turned out lol
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagg
September 28th, 2009, 12:10 PM
Sounds like a bromance to me. =P It's really sweet though. It's probably just because you guys are really close but if you've thought about him sexually you could be curious/bi.
Mikey
September 28th, 2009, 10:29 PM
Just curious man. This happens to me too when my mind wanders. Me and my friends joke around about stuff like "I want to have sex with you" and some girls take it seriously but thats because we are open with our sexuality as being straight. But who knows what happens in the future. Time changes.
Your just wondering what would happen. I've called guys hot. Hell me and my friend allie were talking and i called her boyfriend hot.
daveywavey
September 29th, 2009, 11:05 AM
R u bi or gay?
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