View Full Version : Orgasn to fast?
Dannyy
September 24th, 2009, 10:13 PM
Well when I masturbate, I usually can't even reach the 5 minute mark before I orgasm, is this a problem, or will I grow out of it?
kyle95
September 24th, 2009, 10:16 PM
i wouldn't worry mate. besides, the time will come when you'll be with a partner and that'll be different too.
hammertime3675309
September 24th, 2009, 10:51 PM
Try stroking slower.
JackOfClubs
September 25th, 2009, 01:16 PM
Its not a problem. If you go slower, you will last longer.
Joshm5816
September 25th, 2009, 01:18 PM
Good chance you will grow out of it. When I first started j/o i orgasmed like after a minute. Now it takes like 7-10 minutes.
Dannyy
September 25th, 2009, 03:28 PM
Okay thanks guys.
I'm just worried that i'll be the kind of guy who's girlfriend looks at him and says,
'Gee, thanks for the 2 minutes of sex'.
lil baller
September 25th, 2009, 04:24 PM
it usually takes me only 5 minutes to get an orgasm too. its probably normal
trouble
September 25th, 2009, 04:41 PM
try goin slowe
LeopardXD
September 25th, 2009, 05:45 PM
just go slower don't rush to cum. i stroke for about 45 minutes to an hour then i cum because i want to get as much as possible to come out.
nick
September 25th, 2009, 06:32 PM
Okay thanks guys.
I'm just worried that i'll be the kind of guy who's girlfriend looks at him and says,
'Gee, thanks for the 2 minutes of sex'.
Well sex is a whole different experience, dont worry too much about that. But it is good to train yourself to be slower if you can.
Try stop/starting a bit, try just carressing yourself slowly a bit, not going all out at it. Cant really say anymore because we're not allowed to discuss techniques.
Enormous
September 25th, 2009, 06:40 PM
Similar to me, I'm ready to cum after about a minute or so. I don't really like masturbating for too long so I think it's pretty good.
apocalypse
September 25th, 2009, 06:43 PM
There are all sorts of things you can do to keep your masturbation sessions lasting longer...
1. Take it slower:
- I know that sounds like a hard thing to do, but if you try the 'stop and go' method, that generally helps.
2. Wait a few days.
- Again, it seems like a hard thing to do, but if you give yourself even a day's break from masturbating, it might increase the amount of time you put into making your orgasm great.
3. Masturbate slower.
- When you masturbate, don't go so fast. Pretty simple there. Take your time, and enjoy your 'private time,' instead of rushing through it.
Hope that helps!
Giles
September 26th, 2009, 08:10 AM
There are all sorts of things you can do to keep your masturbation sessions lasting longer...
1. Take it slower:
- I know that sounds like a hard thing to do, but if you try the 'stop and go' method, that generally helps.
2. Wait a few days.
- Again, it seems like a hard thing to do, but if you give yourself even a day's break from masturbating, it might increase the amount of time you put into making your orgasm great.
3. Masturbate slower.
- When you masturbate, don't go so fast. Pretty simple there. Take your time, and enjoy your 'private time,' instead of rushing through it.
Hope that helps!
Well 2 doesnt really make any difference, If anything it might make you go orgasm faster... Because of the increase in sexual tension because of not masturbating you might reach it faster.
3. is the best way to do it.
Fourth Dimension
September 26th, 2009, 09:21 AM
its happend to me but not often
Shalom
September 26th, 2009, 09:35 AM
Yep just take your time and you will take longer!
hiker1992
September 26th, 2009, 10:27 PM
Stop and go method. Do it for a little, then stop, (to the point where you're still hard but not as aroused) then do it for a little, then stop and repeat for as long as you want. It ends building your stamina and increases how much comes out.
bluestarkidd
September 27th, 2009, 10:15 AM
I have this same problem, but I get hard about 3 min after orgasm, and do it again. So, I usually get 2 orgasms when I j/o...lol.. I know i am weird.
lysiaboy
January 2nd, 2010, 10:26 AM
weirdly, for me I climax faster when i'm hungry? I know it's weird
also, if you feel you are picking up speed (and edging towards climax) then just stop and let it get soft for 2 mins. then start over. hope this helps !!
iCookie Jar
January 2nd, 2010, 03:35 PM
Try the stop and start technique.
After masturbating for a long time. (I don't mean a long time in one session. I mean frequently over time.) Your galds become more acustom to the stimulation, so it will gradually take you longer. Nothing to worry about.
jerkoffdude
January 2nd, 2010, 08:46 PM
you will probably grow out of it but they do make male desensitizing lube so you will last longer and if your having sex just wear anything but an ultrathin condom and you wont feel as much so you will last longer
Jman35
January 3rd, 2010, 04:47 PM
You probably haven't built a tolerance. Your body wants stimulation.
Let's just say you haven't had anything sweet (sugar, etc) for a long time andit was your favorite thing, when you saw a candy bar you'd devour it most likely.
Your body just needs to get used to it.
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