6th Grade j/o?

[TyNine]

Hey guys,
Im 14 in 9th grade and go on dirt bike riding trips with my best friend and her lil bro. He's 12 and in 6th grade but horribly immature. He obviously knows what j/o is cuz he does it and told me randomly. He doesnt even know its called masturbating or anything. But anyway he asked me if I did it and said yes.Then he tried to get me to do it with him. I told him nah cuz I think im too old to be doing that with a dude in 6th grade. But when his sister was in the shower it was just me and him outside and he grabbed my dick and said he wanted to get me hard etc. I told him its not right to do that and all so he stopped. But later that night (we stayed up all night) I went in the bathroom to j/o and he stood outside the stall and tried to watch me. I pretended like I didnt know he was there but what do I do? How do I get to this kid? lol

[RenamedUser]

Seems like the simplest and most appropriate course of action would be to inform a trusted adult, potentially his parents.

[safeboy360]

one suggestion might b u could tell his sister and see if she will talk to him or tell his parents this although it will b very ebrassing for both

[alex95]

ugh tell his sister plus you need to get someone to act just the way he does to him this is what made me get mature i found out what it was like but dont be rough to h im he will take it personally but tell his sister, and tell threaten him that you will tell his sister about him lol

[Tommy221]

I think what you did was right.
I wouldn't tell his sister or his parents.

[TyNine]

yea lol i was trying not to tell any1 else cuz of my part in the story.If he does it again ill tell her. Why the hell cant i get action like this from ppl my own age? haha

[alex95]

yea lol i was trying not to tell any1 else cuz of my part in the story.If he does it again ill tell her. Why the hell cant i get action like this from ppl my own age? haha

lol i guess its because there older and know better if i had a friend like you ide masturbate with you lol im 14 in 9th grade as well

[RenamedUser]

ugh tell his sister plus you need to get someone to act just the way he does to him this is what made me get mature i found out what it was like but dont be rough to h im he will take it personally but tell his sister, and tell threaten him that you will tell his sister about him lol

No, there's no point in threatening him or "getting someone to act just the way he does to him". That is poor advice.

[nick]

1. Kick him in the nuts
2. Try to convince him not to grow into the sort of person that makes up imaginary stories just to provoke a reaction.

[alex95]

No, there's no point in threatening him or "getting someone to act just the way he does to him". That is poor advice.

no its good advice because if someone else annoys him the way he annoys that guy he learns his lesson lol...

[Giles]

1. Kick him in the nuts
2. Try to convince him not to grow into the sort of person that makes up imaginary stories just to provoke a reaction.

I agree. expecially with number 2.

no its good advice because if someone else annoys him the way he annoys that guy he learns his lesson lol...

well... Im not so sure.

[Severus Snape]

If you aren't comfortable with him doing that you need to sit down and talk to him seriously about it. Tell him that if he persists, you will tell his parents. That threat alone should be enough.

[Giles]

If you aren't comfortable with him doing that you need to sit down and talk to him seriously about it. Tell him that if he persists, you will tell his parents. That threat alone should be enough.

the threat would only work if he was telling the truth, which We cant be sure of... either way.

[Severus Snape]

the threat would only work if he was telling the truth, which We cant be sure of... either way.

Well, assuming he isn't lying to us. I don't see the point in making up a lie and asking for advice.

[IAMWILL]

Do NOT tell anyone besides him!

It's a matter between you and him. Maybe the best approach would to be, okay, I'll do it with you once, but promise me you won't ask about it again for a while. Like giving a kid his candy fix, give him his hormone fix.

[Mr. Awesome]

I think that if he trys again. Flat out tell him NO. If he persists tell him if he dosn't stop bothering you the you will tell his sister. He will be more afraid of his sister knowing than his parents

[TyNine]

2. Try to convince him not to grow into the sort of person that makes up imaginary stories just to provoke a reaction.

Why would I even make something like this up? I knew what I wanted to do but wanted to see what other people would do in my situation. I personally think people that come on these sites and do that are losers and need to find something better to do with their time. Im not like that. Thanks everyone for your help, especially those who were nice enough to respond without making a jackass comment without even asking any Q's.
And like I said, If he plays his lil game again Ill make sure to exagerate more about how wrong it is to do that with me and other people. If he keeps at it after that Ill have to tell his parents or sister. It makes me feel like Im doing something wrong when he does stuff like that.

[poker852]

i 100% agree with much as been said, but i would sit the kid down and just tell him SOME stuff, but leave some stuff up to his parents. when i was in 6th grade i never did anything like that at all

[TyNine]

Yea I never did that in 6th grade either... thats why I was like oooookaaaaaay haha. He acts really immature but I guess he is physically mature, or maturing.

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[Tommy221]

Don't tell anyone!
I think that wouldn't be fair, as his desires are not too abnormal. I doubt that telling his sister or parents would be the best solutions.
Tell him that he has to understand that you are to old for him...and insist!

[pontiacdriver]

Hey guys,
Im 14 in 9th grade and go on dirt bike riding trips with my best friend and her lil bro. He's 12 and in 6th grade but horribly immature. He obviously knows what j/o is cuz he does it and told me randomly. He doesnt even know its called masturbating or anything. But anyway he asked me if I did it and said yes.Then he tried to get me to do it with him. I told him nah cuz I think im too old to be doing that with a dude in 6th grade. But when his sister was in the shower it was just me and him outside and he grabbed my dick and said he wanted to get me hard etc. I told him its not right to do that and all so he stopped. But later that night (we stayed up all night) I went in the bathroom to j/o and he stood outside the stall and tried to watch me. I pretended like I didnt know he was there but what do I do? How do I get to this kid? lol

My guess is that your friend's brother probably has doubts and questions about puberty, and he is looking for an older brother figure to tell him about the "ropes" so to speak. I think it would be fine if you talked to him about puberty and emphasize responsibility and the need to be careful with whom he shares his body, but you should also say that there is nothing wrong with sexuality. It just seems like this kid never had the "talk" with his family, yet, and I would probably encourage this kid to talk with his Father. My concern in this situation is that if you do anything with this kid, then it will cause a horrible situation between you and your friend as well as her family. The last thing you want is folks is to think that you are a pervert, and you should never do anything with this kid. However, talking about puberty is fair game I suppose.

My chief concern is that this kid doesn't seem to know where the lines are when it comes to appropriate behaviour, and he needs someone to set limits for him. He is a child in that he is pushing the limits, but he has adult desires in that he wants someone to be sexual with him; this is a scary combination, and some guys never quite grow out of that phase. Only if you feel comfortable, then I would tell your friend to encourage her Father to talk with the boy. Chances are the family still views the kid as a little boy who doesn't know what sex is, but it is clear he needs a sex talk sooner than later. Assuming you and your friend are close, then you should tell her in general terms without going into specifics about her brother. What I mean is that you should simply tell your friend that your brother has been asking you questions about sexuality, but don't mention that he wants to jack off with you. Hopefully, your friend's father will talk to the boy as an adult is really needed in this situation as it is ultimately the parent who is responsible for this boy's sex education.


Finally, just emphasize to the boy that while it is normal to be curious about puberty and about one's body and new abilities that there are limits in terms of what is appropriate and what is not. The last thing you want to see is this boy doing what he is doing with you with other kids as my predication is that he will be put in a bad situation especially if the other person doesn't reciprocate.

[XFlyboyX]

just keep doing what u r doing right now

[Nelson]

slap him with it and say bad boy
jk, lol
dont do that obviously :P

good one.... but no tell the parents.. there could be like an underlying issue!

[lil baller]

dont tell his parents. that would be so embarassing for him. just talk to his sister and she if she can do anything

[Shalom]

Yeah keep it to yourself in the real world, he is just young and curious. Possibly try not being around him, since he isn't your friend and all that shouldn't be too hard.

[TyNine]

Thanks guys. Ill just try my best to seriously talk to him and not tell anyone on the next trip. Hopefully he'll get the point.

[AlexRexRocky]

If you are way older then him.. I would just haul it out and give him the scare of his life.. LOL JK.. No really, just talk to him.. Ask him why he wants to see yours.. Maybe hes just intrested in comparing with other guys.. And if he still insists sit him down in front of a computer and google Penis and let him see LOL.. Thats all I can think of.. Srry