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thededer
September 24th, 2009, 02:33 PM
ok well here i go...
there is this girl right. i used to go to school with her in grade 3. i switched schools. i am now in grade 9 and she is now the prettiest girl i have every seen in my life. i really really like her and i dont know what to do she is in one of my classes out of 4 at school. i dont wana ruin our new restarted friendship or anything but its like killing me inside that she dosent know how i feel

please help a guy in need


anyone?

Gumleaf
September 25th, 2009, 02:51 AM
hmmm, if its troubling you so much by not telling her, then maybe you should? because if you don't it could end up interfering with your friendship anyways. as you have pointed out, you risk ruining your friendship by telling her, but sometimes speaking up is the right answer.

Contra
September 25th, 2009, 10:39 AM
Talk to her about stuff related to tlove and relationships, perhaps she may give you a sign of interest in you. If not, then you should consider telling her, like Stephen said, before she gives you a friend card...

cherry_boi
September 25th, 2009, 01:05 PM
tell her u think she's really cute and ask her to hang out with u on ____(insert selected date here)______


don't be all serious like "i love you!!" haha u'll seem desperate and creepy......be casual and confident, and make sure ur clear

thededer
September 25th, 2009, 01:41 PM
ok here is an update i planed to tell her today but i didnt i still might tell her today though but this is what i have to ask. if i dont think she like likes me if i tell her i like like her could that make her start to like me

Darkness
September 25th, 2009, 01:52 PM
No, not unless she can, if she can, then it might her think about you in that way but you can't make her like you if she doesn't have the ability to think of you like that. Does that make sence?

thededer
September 25th, 2009, 02:02 PM
kind of but i don want it too i have no clue if she likes anyone other then this apparently really hot celeberty but what girl dont liek them