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Kurfenfo
September 24th, 2009, 03:46 AM
I've been good friends with her for almost a year, and we've been pretty much cool with each other. We talk about random things, and we really do stir up a lot of conversations. She doesn't talk much, but we hang out anyway.

I think I might've started having feelings for her though. She's attractive and funny...I don't know if it's just a feeling everyone gets, but it's really getting to me. I tried to socialize with her more by trying to make her talk a bit more (while being both sarcastic and cool about it at the same time). But I think she got uncomfortable with that, 'cause she started talking to me less. Now we barely say anything to each other.

What should I do?

I also have a crush on another girl, also a friend, but she doesn't talk to me as close. She's really pretty, and screws around a lot. We're just friends.

I don't know what to follow. Should I try to be more cool with my friend and work things out, or should I try a different approach with the other friend. Or should I just screw it and forget everything?

mrmcdonaldduck
September 24th, 2009, 04:53 AM
i think that you should return the first relationship to normal then ask her out and if that fails, ask the second one out.

but please dont follow my advice unless someone else agrees. (:

unknown2011
October 5th, 2009, 09:24 PM
im in the same spot with you. well i am with your closer friend. me and my friend, we just flirt all the time or discuss personal things. we did like each other but she wanted it to be liek a bro/sis thing. it is, but we flirt. ALOT!
hope this helped!

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October 8th, 2009, 05:49 AM
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