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Natoja12
September 22nd, 2009, 09:44 PM
This guy I like is 16 and he told me he was stressed put and I asked y and he told me it involves lots of tears, u will soon find out. So I got really worried and promiseed on my life not to tell anyone when he told me he's running away. At 2am taking a bus to hide at a friends 2 hours away. I'm the only one who nos. I'm so scared for him and I've told him the dangers of it and he laughed it off. I'm scared he's gonna get killed. He won't even tell his sister.

mrmcdonaldduck
September 22nd, 2009, 10:11 PM
you should talk to his parents and mention this if they ask you. your friends life is more important than his reason for running away.

Ortizitthisone
September 23rd, 2009, 06:47 PM
I agree with Jason here. You ought to tell his parents or even the authorities, especially if you know where he is going.

alex95
September 23rd, 2009, 08:14 PM
i remember when i was guna run away its ok his not guna die he will learn his lesson no where is more comferting than home.

Blue63
September 23rd, 2009, 08:36 PM
Wow, big decision. I disagree, don't tell his parents, they may get all judgmental. Tell his sister, she's closer to him and knows the parents. Put it in her hand, if she thinks it's the right thing to tell his his parents she will, just tell her it's in her hands.

BuryYourFlame
September 24th, 2009, 05:54 AM
There are cases where trust must be broken simply for the safety of the person involved. As other people have said, tell his parents or the authorities, this is the best way to make sure he is safe.

Now, he will most certainly be mad at you for telling them, he quite possibly may even start ignoring you completely, but just wait this out, hopefully he will eventually see that you did this out of love for him and wanting him to be safe, and not to hurt him.

alex95
September 24th, 2009, 01:56 PM
not to be rude but my cousin did this to me once to test my trust and he got me........ So becarefull he might be testing how good you can keep a secret...

Truth
September 24th, 2009, 11:08 PM
Where i live it's legal to move out at 16... Is it not there? If so, tell his parents.

Beautiful Obsession
September 25th, 2009, 04:28 PM
I know you promised you wouldnt tell anyone. but at the end of the day, whats more important. you keep a promisee... or he gets hurt? which you wont know about because he's ran away, its not fare of him to ask you to keep this secret. sooner or later his family are going to report him missing and the police will be asking you questionss..

Natoja12
September 27th, 2009, 09:48 PM
It's a tough situation apparently he has left today. I found out wat city he is going to And that it's with family. But there is no way I'm telling anyone. I love him so much. And the police wont ask anything to me. The family is divorced he lives an hour away from me and his sister. His sister lives with her grandma so it's unlikely they will be asking me of anything I hardly even see him.

Delusion15
September 27th, 2009, 10:40 PM
I think at this point you should tell someone it's dangerous out there he could get hurt or worse this has gone to far tell someone