allisha123
September 22nd, 2009, 02:06 PM
k so
i've never dated anyone, i never really thought i was ready. i'm 18 now and totaly fine being single, frankly i still have a lot of things in my life i need to get straight, and strength my relationship with God, since i've kinda put that on hold a little, before i start dating. there is a boy i know. i've known him well since i was in junior high, we go to the same youth group but he did go that much back then until this year, I never really talked to him. summers 2007-08 i worked for a kids program run by my youth group, last summer this boy volunteered. by the way he is a year older. i talked to him sometimes, mainly cause the other staff ( ages 16-19 about 5 of us) didn't talk to him much, he's a bit weird not in a bad way, he's just real friendly, somewhat anti-social but not really. eventually he started sitting with us youth at church, i thought that was cool, except we all had spots that we claimed, and he kinda took one of my youth leaders spot, right beside me, and my best friend sat on the other. i was kinda upset about that, i thought he liked my best friend who is 2 years younger, and i didn't understand why he sat on the other side of me away from my best friend.
then later i find out he likes him, he asked to go for a walk to get to know each other, which we did. eventually we talked some more and we decided to just be friends, he was cool with it, as long as if one day when i'm ready to date to let him be the first to know, i agreed. so then we got to know each other as friends, then months later maybe about 8 months or so, we were hanging out, unfortunately alone that day, at his house in the living room, his parents were there but downstairs. we were you know doing the usual, playing videos games, listen to music, computer, he is a movie geek, and i haven't seen many movies so, we always watch a movie whenever we are at someones house, so i get up to speed with everyone. so we were watching a movie, i was cold and was rubbing my hands on my arms and that didn't help much, so i rubbed them on my leggs, he asked if i wanted to hold his hand cause he was warm i said no thats ok, so he gave me a sweater, which i was fine with, friends do that too sometimes. i kept rubbing my legs. k my major weakness is that i'm extremely ticklish, and all my friends take advantage of it, so i think he got bored or he remembered that i took something of his and he brought it up, then cause i wouldn't give in he started tickling me, so i did it back, you know how people can get when they tickle each other eventually someone has to use the washroom, which was me. when i got back i had a drink when i sat back i noticed something was strange and different, so i glanced more in that direction, only to see that he had a boner. i sat back real quickly and kinda freaked out in my head a little and tried calming myself down, saying don't worry all guys get it, but why around me, oh stop you're overreacting. ya so thats my story, i never said anything and that was two months ago, i did make him go buy jeans cause never use to wear them. so now i have know i idea if it's happened again but ya. kinda wondering if i should do something about it or just try to forget about it. like i've said i've never dated so that was a new experience for me.
sorry it's so long.
i've never dated anyone, i never really thought i was ready. i'm 18 now and totaly fine being single, frankly i still have a lot of things in my life i need to get straight, and strength my relationship with God, since i've kinda put that on hold a little, before i start dating. there is a boy i know. i've known him well since i was in junior high, we go to the same youth group but he did go that much back then until this year, I never really talked to him. summers 2007-08 i worked for a kids program run by my youth group, last summer this boy volunteered. by the way he is a year older. i talked to him sometimes, mainly cause the other staff ( ages 16-19 about 5 of us) didn't talk to him much, he's a bit weird not in a bad way, he's just real friendly, somewhat anti-social but not really. eventually he started sitting with us youth at church, i thought that was cool, except we all had spots that we claimed, and he kinda took one of my youth leaders spot, right beside me, and my best friend sat on the other. i was kinda upset about that, i thought he liked my best friend who is 2 years younger, and i didn't understand why he sat on the other side of me away from my best friend.
then later i find out he likes him, he asked to go for a walk to get to know each other, which we did. eventually we talked some more and we decided to just be friends, he was cool with it, as long as if one day when i'm ready to date to let him be the first to know, i agreed. so then we got to know each other as friends, then months later maybe about 8 months or so, we were hanging out, unfortunately alone that day, at his house in the living room, his parents were there but downstairs. we were you know doing the usual, playing videos games, listen to music, computer, he is a movie geek, and i haven't seen many movies so, we always watch a movie whenever we are at someones house, so i get up to speed with everyone. so we were watching a movie, i was cold and was rubbing my hands on my arms and that didn't help much, so i rubbed them on my leggs, he asked if i wanted to hold his hand cause he was warm i said no thats ok, so he gave me a sweater, which i was fine with, friends do that too sometimes. i kept rubbing my legs. k my major weakness is that i'm extremely ticklish, and all my friends take advantage of it, so i think he got bored or he remembered that i took something of his and he brought it up, then cause i wouldn't give in he started tickling me, so i did it back, you know how people can get when they tickle each other eventually someone has to use the washroom, which was me. when i got back i had a drink when i sat back i noticed something was strange and different, so i glanced more in that direction, only to see that he had a boner. i sat back real quickly and kinda freaked out in my head a little and tried calming myself down, saying don't worry all guys get it, but why around me, oh stop you're overreacting. ya so thats my story, i never said anything and that was two months ago, i did make him go buy jeans cause never use to wear them. so now i have know i idea if it's happened again but ya. kinda wondering if i should do something about it or just try to forget about it. like i've said i've never dated so that was a new experience for me.
sorry it's so long.