gay..

[alex95]

so today at school this gay kid walked up to me and accdantly hit me in my ass and then later on that day he asked me out. Then i punched him and kicked him did i do the right thing? I think i wasnt thinking i was around my friends and there all jamaican they wouldnt ever accept something like this.... But i felt bad i didnt wana have to do it but... i felt sick... something came over me whats wrong with me? :confused: i feel like i dont know my self when i punched him and he fell i was guna step in his head then i just walked off.... :eek: i just feel a chill come over me when he asked me that i went out.... I felt as if i did something guilty i felt a chill on me when he asked me out. Any answers why i did this?

[Cloud]

so you attacked someone
for asking you out
well your a lovely guy aint you

NO YOU DIDNT DO THE RIGHT THING
you dont go round hitting people for stupid fucking reasons jeez, learn some fucknig decency
he had the guts to actually ask you out and you just attacked him in response. shockin

[alex95]

HE was a guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldnt if it was a girl but i just felt a sick chill come over me

[Cloud]

HE was a guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and?
clearly by him having the guts to ask you out
shows hes alot more mature and braver than you
if all you do to react is use violence
please
for tyour own sake
grow up

[alex95]

and?
clearly by him having the guts to ask you out
shows hes alot more mature and braver than you
if all you do to react is use violence
please
for tyour own sake
grow up
You act like i did it unpurpose i walked away because i didnt mean to hit him i just a chill come over me then i hit him and got ready to step on his head.... i didnt mean to!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Cloud]

You act like i did it unpurpose i walked away because i didnt mean to hit him i just a chill come over me then i hit him and got ready to step on his head.... i didnt mean to!!!!!!!!!!!!!

how do you not mean to hit someone
and you said in your first post you punched and kicked em
its hard to do that accidentaly...

[AllThatIsLeft]

No arguing please.

and to the OP, you shouldn't have reacted violently, to take the courage to ask someone out is extremely hard.
You felt pressure to act how your friends would approve of, and it was wrong.

if I were you i'd apologize.

[alex95]

No arguing please.

and to the OP, you shouldn't have reacted violently, to take the courage to ask someone out is extremely hard.
You felt pressure to act how your friends would approve of, and it was wrong.

if I were you i'd apologize.

ok ill apoligize tomorrow but then if i apoligize but im guna have to tell him im not gay......

[AllThatIsLeft]

You do that, make it very clear.

but no insulting, and no violence.

[alex95]

You do that, make it very clear.

but no insulting, and no violence.

No violence and not insulting... i wont...

[Rainstorm]

ok ill apoligize tomorrow but then if i apoligize but im guna have to tell him im not gay......

The tell him.

If I were to ask a guy out, and he punched me, it's not exactly the best feeling to get, no?

When someone asks you out, and you don't want him, simply speak. Don't use violence. It's not right, even if you didn't mean it. Violence only leads to anger and more violence.

Also, you most likely hurt his self esteem if he asked you out and he punched you. Maybe makes him think it's wrong to be gay.


Apologize and tell him the truth. You're not interested in dating a guy, but thanks for asking.

[Θάνατος]

The best thing to do is apologize for your actions today.

Cloud was just trying to get you to see how wrong your actions were today he was not trying to start a fight here.

I hope that you think next time before attacking some guy because he has the maturity to express his feelings toward you.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

It's hard to "accidentally" beat the crap out of someone. You punched him, and kicked him, and then he must have ended up on the ground because you contemplating stomping on his head. That's some pretty serious stuff, you could have severely injured him, whether you intended to or not. The very fact that you were able to think to yourself about whether or not you were going to take it further implies that you did know what you were doing, even if you don't recall thinking about it before you did it. You say your friends wouldn't accept a gay guy asking you out. What, does it make you gay if he talks to you? You're not gay, so you would have said no, and that would have been the end of it. If your friends wouldn't accept you over that, you need new friends.

I'd apologize to this kid the next time that you see him. He may not accept it--after all you pounced on him and beat him to the ground--but give it a shot. You're lucky you haven't been suspended or expelled from school for this.

[alex95]

im guna apoligize when i see him...

[peaceloverugby]

As we say at the Special Education centre where I volunteer "That is not ok, use your words!" And these are four-year-old children with mental disablities, not homophobic fourteen-year-olds. He had the maturity and courage to ask someone out who he found attractive. And you beat him up? How would you feel if someone beat you up because you made them uncomfortable? Grow up, I've seen better behaved autistic four-year-olds.

[tripolar]

Honestly what you said is bullshit. Just like kaleidoscope eyes said about how its hard to accidentally beat someone up you obviously beat him down. Yes that kid sexually harassed you by slapping your ass and that is wrong, but later on he asked you out you could have atleast said no im not gay or sense your friends sound like complete homophobes say "im not a fag", but hitting him was bad but you said you had the thinked about stomping on his head, Jesus Christ your fucked up get some common sense you could kill him by doing that. Think about that. Also you beat him which will most likely get you in trouble because chances are him or someone who saw it is going to tell then your going to be in a lot of trouble. Or worse for you his parents called the school or maybe the police.

So overall you fucked up big time, did not do the right thing at all. You have to use COMMON SENSE before you do things. Yeah you tried to impress your boys but guess what when you maybe get charged with assault or suspended from school they won't care.

[alex95]

well i apoligized and got it over with

[cherry_boi]

i punched a guy in the face for askin u out.....ur a douche

apologize to him

if u don't wana date him then fine...there are less ass-hole-ish ways to say no

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

well i apoligized and got it over with

Glad to hear it. How'd that go?

[alex95]

Glad to hear it. How'd that go?

he understood he said its ok he understands that im not gay but i didnt have to punch him and all that he felt embarrased and cried afterwards...

[tripolar]

he understood he said its ok he understands that im not gay but i didnt have to punch him and all that he felt embarrased and cried afterwards...

He is exactly right you didn't have to punch him, but at least he understands and you said sorry.

[ILOVEYOU]

but i kinda do agree with Alex.. no offense but touching someone's ass isnt really cool. please Feel him otherwise!. i'm straight but i feel Gays and Bisexuals, so no offense here.

[Aves]

At least you apologized, I mean it was mature of you. Sometimes, people are just so happy to hear an apology especially if you really meant it.

[Beautiful Obsession]

Wow thatss.. Shady. you hit someone for asking you out? Because hes gay.. It must of taken him alot of guts to ask you out. and you assult him..

and at least you'v apologised..but it stil doesnt make it better the fact what you did

[Monoxide]

if i was that guy i would get back up and beat the shit out of you. Douche bagg

[Ryhanna]

I know what you mean when you say you didn't mean to hit him, he was just innocently asking and you got scared and mad - totally understandable. But it would have been good of you to apologize as soon as it happened.
Maybe explain to him that your not gay and you dont have feelings for him, but offer to be friends and go out somewhere - as friends. make that clear.

[Hyper]

Lal well the people bashing you are just showing they have no idea what kind of a prejudice you could face..

But obviously you acted wrong but the most important thing is that you realize it and feel guilty about it

Jamaicans aren't really the accepting or tolerant type about sexuality.. However yes you shouldn't act some way because you fear what your friends think