Major PROBLEM please help fast

[Stevie J]

I'm at college, in a realllyyy difficult long distance relationship
my girlfriends 14 hrs away and like i love her to death but sometimes i feel she doesn't care... i met this really awesome girl and i have a crush on her
she likes me back. now my friendship with her is threatened because i have a girlfriend and she probably can't deal with being around a guy that she likes whom is unavailable.

should i tell my girlfriend what happened or like keep it a secret. i would never make a move without having ended my relationship first, but i feel wrong for liking another person, and i feel my girlfriend deserves the truth.

WHAT DO I DO?!

[IAMWILL]

Well...

Your friendship with this new girl shouldn't have an effect on your relationship with your girlfriend or vice versa. Your going out with your girlfriend for a reason, you trust each other, you communicate with each other, and you care for each other. If you want anything good to come from this, call your girlfriend and tell her that you are having trouble away from her, and you want to see her again. You need to be reminded why you two or going out, and not get distracted by other girls.

[Stevie J]

I know this is like almost DOUBLE POSTING
but basically there has been an update... The girl is really upset because i have a girlfriend * i didn't lead her on or anything she knew from the start * and we just found a liking towards eachother. shes one of my friends but she is distancing herself from me and not wanting to see my anymroe
i love being with her and it makes me so upset knowing we may never hangout again

I really want to die right now like i can't stand the fact that i can't just be happy i think i have a mental problem

[Gumleaf]

long distance relatuionships are complicated and very hard to maintain when the contact you have together is very limited. by keeping long distance relationships alive, you rob yourself the chance of having a new relationship with someone who you can physically be with. you haven't mentioned how much contact, if any, you have with your girlfriend. but the way you are talking, if it was me in your situation, i think it would be really hard to keep the current relationship. its not fair to her or yourself to let this go on either. i think you should look at what is in front of you and think about what will make you the happiest. but also think about both girls too, because someone is going to end up hurt.

[Stevie J]

We keep in contact via text lets say for aleast an hour a day

but the situations over

the OTHER girl decided it was in her best interest to distance herself from me until she can figure out whats going on

so like me n my gf are going fine im keeping the girlfriend

i feel the other girl made a bitch move because i tried my best to remain close friends because i love hanging out with this girl but like i guess she can't take the pain its causing
i feel bad for her

and the people who got hurt are me and her
i lost a friend :'( hopefully not though

her "distant period" is still going on

[Shalom]

You have to do whats best for you in life, who do you see yourself with in 10 years? If your current gf is putting in no effort then why waste time.

[Stevie J]

UPDATE!!!!
like i was miserable and felt numb inside... so i felt she should know like im not well... and im afraid i threw my relationship into the trash...

*edit* I told her how i was feeling