Umm...did I just get asked out? *confused*

[OhHeyItsTy]

Ok, here's a convo that my ex and I just had on AIM. (Screen names have been changed for confidentiality purposes)

Him: well when was the last time we hung out or talked for a really long time? that could be why dude
Me: like...apple fest last year? or that time we got ice cream w/ kim
Him: yeah that was forever ago
Me: basically
Him: i dont think i have seen you at all in 2009
Me: probably not
Him: wow thats sad
Me: pretty much
Him: well lets get coffee or something, except i'm too cheep so lets do something free
Me: ok...because theres anything in the world thats free these days
Him: ok then relatively not expensive
Me: ok...like...?
Him: ok you know what that's hard to think of in a bad economy!
Him: lets just go out to an extravegant dinner and a movie (mcdonald's and netflix)
Me: rofl
Me: YES!
Him: ok that's our plan. are you signed up for nextflix?
Me: no
Him: neither am i
Me: well what about that red box thing at walmart?
Me: thats only a dollar
Him: yes!
Me: woohoo
Him: and there is a mcdonalds there too! SCORE!
Me: well then yay!
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This boy is always confusing me with mixed signals of whether he likes me still or not, so I don't know.

[IAMWILL]

No, this seems more of a fun conversation or joke than anything. Since you really made no plans it's just fooling around really. And besides just asking if you wanted to hang out with him doesn't mean he wants to go out with you.

[StillurDyl]

IAMWILL is right, with 'going out with someone', you kinda have to be clear. But there isnt anything wrong with just hanging out till you find out how he feels

[mrmcdonaldduck]

id say that he just wants to catch up with you in person. i dont think your being asked out.

[Jagador]

No, this seems more of a fun conversation or joke than anything. Since you really made no plans it's just fooling around really. And besides just asking if you wanted to hang out with him doesn't mean he wants to go out with you.

Said it perfectly

[OhHeyItsTy]

Yeah probably. Kinda hope it's not a date anyway, no way I can go through all that again.

[cherry_boi]

wudn't say u got asked out, but he seems interested to spend time with u

[arabmoney11221]

this does not really seem serious unless you have seen clues that he likes u

[OhHeyItsTy]

Well we used to go out, and he quite often does this flirting thing with me. There was more to the convo than what I posted that also leads me to think that it might be serious, but then again it wouldn't be the first time that he would have flirted and then say he was just kidding.

[AllThatIsLeft]

umm I do that to my ex all the time, we are just really good friends, I don't think he meant it in the lets go out way, more like in the "lets catch up" way..

The fact that you are not together anymore doesn't mean you can't hang out, and this is just a way of saying I'm alright with you, and I don't see why we cant be friends...

if that makes sense.

[OhHeyItsTy]

Ok, so he got me from school today and we hung out for a while, but I had something at four, so he said he wants to re-schedule for the "dinner and movie", but I realized while I was with him today that I'm way over him.

I feel really free right now, like I can breathe.