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MichaelAdams1993
September 15th, 2009, 10:12 PM
So , I just wanted people to know so here goes:

On the way home from a tennis match another team member was texting me (so we could have a private convo on the bus) and he wanted to know if I liked his friend who was gay. Still closeted then so I just asked why he thinks that and then finally tell him no :( sadly a little later. Then when I was talking to the guy who he was questioning me about on facebook, he guessed it and I just said yes, for now we are keeping it between us but I will start telling people slowly.

Plus, I can't tell everyone because if it got home, and believe me it would cause its such a small town and my mom knows everyone plus my step-bro will be in high school next year and since he lives with my homophobe dad and step-mom (I live with my mom) I can't tell eveyone and let it spread around. But it feels good to tell someone anyways.

Jagador
September 15th, 2009, 10:16 PM
Good for you! i still am closed... tightly.. and im not letting it loosen one bit... yet anyway... not till i have moved out of the house

confusedboy
September 16th, 2009, 03:34 PM
Congrats! That's great your talking with that guy. Wish I was getting some luck lol. Just take your time with coming out, you'll know when the time's right ;)

daveywavey
September 16th, 2009, 10:47 PM
there is one guy i am talking to that i met at school named mike , we recently have kinda been hinting at eachother that we might be gay or bi but nothing official yet :/ i get butterflys in my stomach everytime we talk

Fourth Dimension
September 20th, 2009, 01:05 AM
well i am the same way sorta i just dont want it getting home

Fusion
September 20th, 2009, 05:48 AM
Congrats I hope everything works out for you :)

Shalom
September 20th, 2009, 08:21 AM
Thats cool, the first step is always the hardest. Keep it up and be proud!!

ackmedsgirl666
September 20th, 2009, 09:39 AM
congrats. its never an easy thing but you gave it your all
good luck;)

MichaelAdams1993
September 20th, 2009, 09:35 PM
there is one guy i am talking to that i met at school named mike , we recently have kinda been hinting at eachother that we might be gay or bi but nothing official yet :/ i get butterflys in my stomach everytime we talk

Hope things go the way you want and I know exaclty what you mean about the butterflies, it is actaully kinda annoying and cool that he makes me feel that way. Are you gay or bi?

Appleton
September 21st, 2009, 11:06 AM
I know about the small town and not wanting it to get around. Thankfully my family has been really supportive. I've got a few really close friends that know but there's no way I can come out completely. Hang in there and lean on the people you know you can trust. If it was anything like me, it felt like a huge weight was taken off me when i just told one person. Nobody says you have to tell everybody right away.

I hope things work out for you and if you need to talk, feel free to reach out. :)

daveywavey
September 21st, 2009, 04:13 PM
Hope things go the way you want and I know exaclty what you mean about the butterflies, it is actaully kinda annoying and cool that he makes me feel that way. Are you gay or bi?

i am bi .. i guess, i have had a bf and a gf, but i enjoy boys alot more right now, so its really ahrd to say i guess how about you?

Severus Snape
September 22nd, 2009, 01:50 PM
Good for you mate!

I go to a catholic high school in the heart of atlanta, so I can't really be as open about my sexuality. :P

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagg
September 22nd, 2009, 03:55 PM
This seems so wierd to me. My school, family and friends are entirely open about different sexual orientations. I came out so easily (Im bi) and nobody was effected. I wish everybody could be like that. But of course we still have homophobes but mojority of the people are cool with it. Anyways, im happy you found someone and it really does feel better when you can talk about it.

Eddle
September 26th, 2009, 06:58 PM
Good for you, it is nice to have someone to talk to and you just take your time to tell all who you need to tell and if they don't accept you for who you are then they aren't worth knowing.