7 Months and My Virginity...down the toilet.

[RenaShugo]

Today, me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up.

It all happened, when i realised, all she wanted to do..
Was have sex.
I said something to her today about it, and she got abit angry, and said "we watch movies too!" and i replied "yeh, 5 minutes of it, and then you tease me and tease me until you get your way".

She also got really pissy at me when i hung with ym friends, shed pout and pout till i came over to her, and if i didnt come over within 5 minutes, and sit amongst her and her girlfriends, she wouldnt talk to me for like an hour or so.
Being a spoiled only child really didnt help either, she always gets what she wants.

I was sick of her not actually talking to me these days..
All it was was SEX, SEX, SEX.
But i got sick of it.. and told her that.
She got really angry at me, and so i told her, i just couldnt do it anymore..i told her, that my feelings had changed...
But deep down, i still love her more than anything...

I dont want to leave her...
But i was sick of doing nothing but...yeh

After it happened, i went for a walk, to blow off some steam..
And was tempted to walk out in front of a semi-trailer that was goin past.
My life just feels pointless without her in it.
I feel like ive made the worst mistake of my life..

Without her...i feel like i will never be happy again...:(

[Bougainvillea]

I think you made a wise decision. If you weren't happy. She was obviously spoiled and didn't care about the relationship. It's time for something better out of life. ;)

[wavey]

You made the right decision, if you want, you could ask her to start fresh.. maybe start it small.. do a bit more with her, like more foreplay and try to satisfy her sexual needs without the sex..

[Grey fox]

She is (unfortunately) an insensitive and uncaring little madam.

Trust me on this, you will laugh at yourself in the future for being so hung up on her.

There are plenty more fish in the sea, I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true!

You did the right thing, and any pain you are feeling now will go with time.

:)

[Art_dude]

Yup, you definitely made the right choice. It's not like you didn't express how you felt - you laid out your issues on the table for her to potentially work out, but being the spoiled person she sounds like, she decided not to. As Amy said they're are plenty of other fish in the sea.

[useitorloseit69]

Dude. its better to get it over with and suffer for a few weeks then be miserable for months to come with a girl that only wants sex. many girls out there can fill that void and offer you something more than sex

[Viral Death]

I was in a relationship like that before and believe me it sucked! It never works out so you made the right decision, because in the future she would of hurt you. You made the right decision so dont worry man! There are others out there that dont want sex unlike that un greatful spoiled brat, sorry hope things get better!

[Sage]

Most people in your shoes would actually be happy to be rid of a nymphomaniac.

[miss.miserable]

i think u made a really good decision. :) shes just a spoiled lil butt. you deserve better then tht. id get sick of just doing...tht and nothing else.

[overcome.]

I know that this isn't obviously a good situation for you. But to be blunt, you can't change the past, only look back and see how it's had an effect on you, whether it's positive or negative.

Although it was a bad experience (not that it's your fault, because other peoples wants or 'needs' aren't your fault or anything to do with you), look back on it as a life experience. Realise that this is an experience that's good in its own way, because it's made you who you are today. It's an experience that has now changed the way you see things, which is good at a young age. There are people out there in the world that will do far worse, not to lessen the amount this has affected you, I know it has a lot and over time that pain will go away.

What I'm trying to summarise really is that it's these experiences, whether they're positive or negative that shape us as human beings. Think positive on this, think that it's taught you a little about those 3 things I mentioned. At a young age you've gained a glimpse of what people can be like, not all people, but some people. Knowledge is power. Also, realise that although friends come and go, between relationships and various other life problems, friends will help you through this and be there for you, because that's what good ones do.

I feel like I haven't really quite hit the nail on the head, I feel like there was kind of more I wanted to say - however my mind has gone blank ha. I hope my post was a least a little use, you will heal in time. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger, not just our exterior, but our hearts too.