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September 15th, 2009, 10:03 AM
I just started High School and boy have things changed... I fell inlove with a girl i just found out her name but i know that she's beautiful, good and the best of it i think she actually likes me, she always acts weird around me (i do too but..) she almost never talks when i'm around it is kinda weird knowing that you love someone but just can't express yourself in the right way i am gonna wait a few weeks or a month to get to know her better, if things get along i will ask her out, but this is all the good part, now the bad part begins, the thing is i don't have any experience before, i am afraid that i will blow it on the asking out thing or if i go trough it (hardly) that i will do it on the kiss part, since i have never kissed anyone before :S :what: :wub: Any help, well advice would be better... :)
Grey fox
September 15th, 2009, 03:40 PM
Just take it easy and slow.
Most things just happen naturally, as it's what your bodies are programmed to do!
But make sure you let things take their time, and that you build a deep sense of trust wiht her first!
Good luck!
sebbie
September 15th, 2009, 05:53 PM
Well chances are if you have both just started high school neither of you is going to have much experience in the dating/relationship scene.
My suggestion is you get to know each other a bit better, and as time goes on you will realise how you feel towards each other.
Also don't worry about kissing and stuff like that, it will come naturally in time when you and another person are ready for it. It is something to enjoy, so don't worry to much about it.
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September 16th, 2009, 06:36 AM
Hmm maybe you are right but i forgot to say that i didn't have any feelings towards her a couple of days ago... I was just sitting in her opposite, looking directly towards her and than i felt a little weird (fell in love for someone who doesn't understand)... It happaned really fast and it's the second time in my life so... :what:
Blue63
September 16th, 2009, 08:12 PM
Well first of all congrats on finding someone :yes: Second of all, you have the right idea in waiting to get to know her, just remember: Start of small, gradually talk to her more and more. Don't talk to her to often, if you to are becoming close, don't always initiate the conversation, wait to see if she does. Whether she texts you and says hey, calls you, instant messages you whatever.
Don't worry about not having kissed a girl, I haven't either and I'm 15. It's not a big deal, it'll come when it comes. It's one of the things that is also a little natural. I don't have the link on me but if you're really nervous go to www.wikihow.com and look for how to kiss a girl (or is it just "how to kiss someone") and how to read body language, both very helpful :yes:
Also, don't be so quick to call it love. It's hard for everyone to fully understand love as teenagers. But it is true affection, I have no doubt about that.
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