Help Advice Greatly Needed

[Fourth Dimension]

Well idk if this should go here or not but oh well you see i have this friend and we have been friends for a long time we are so close we have j/o together (not touching just in same room but i have touched his and hes touched mine) anyway back to what i was saying last week we actually kissed it seemed to get awkward around him but that ended fast then lastnight he was acting different saying how he doesnt care about ne thing ne more so i was trying to help him he does have some probs(drugs) and i have tried helping him b4 he wont let me and now hes saying he wants to get clean and not screw up his life(partaly my influence that he saposedly wants to get clean) He has said this many times and i told him i didnt believe him and he flipped out and thinks ive changed since turning 18 ill quotes His Text "ever since u turned 18 u have changed into a know it all stuck up brat u think u can change everything but u cant and i dnt like the new u" becomming 18 changes ur perspective on things the stuff u dad as a child can seem stupid i have never done drugs nore do i want to but he clames i was cool with it b4 and i wasnt and i told him that i told him that i havnt changed really its just growing up and ovbvously he isnt now i have had a huge crush forever on him and idk what to do hes one of my best mate and idk what to do about this he wont even talk to me cut i told him i didnt believe him and he thinks im a know it all cuz im just telling him how his life could end up if he doenst change so what should i do:(

[iff_i_had_a_dime]

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[Giles]

FUCKING HELL, does your have a full stop phobia? god try using them some time...

I think that you could well of changed since you changed 18, but noticable enough for your friend to notice? I doubt it.
Just try and talk to him, I dont mean half-heartedly... sit down with him an hammer the fact that you want to remain friends. Same with the drug thnig.

[The Harlequin]

Saying you didn't believe him was a big mistake, just make sure you know that and tell him, what I think you meant was that you haven't seen him change, you're really keen to believe him, he's one of your greatest friends, but having no proof of any change makes it impossible for you to back up your own faith in him.

Tell him you know he wants to improve, you know that he can beat this drug problem, you just need to be more aware of his progression, first things first though, you have to apologise for saying that you didn't believe him ~ it was just badly phrased on your part ~ nothing personal.

Also you should say that you always knew that drugs were bad, and you always wanted him to stop, you just felt as though you couldn't push him too hard because you feared he'd push you away, and look what's happened when you finally did summon up the courage to tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel. You really don't want to lose him to this...

Plus this probably wouldn't be a good time to mention your crush, I'd leave that for a time when there's less turbulance.

Btw, out of curiosity, are you bisexual or gay or just confused?

[lawrence22]

srry idk um try keeping him home with u or an intervention

[Fourth Dimension]

Thanks Guys I Got It Sorted Out